Update:Talked to sis about being MOH

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Hello, just and update. I called my sis yesterday and talked to her about being

her Maid of Honor. In some ways it was a good talk in others it was just wacked

out.

I was highly emotional while talking to her. I don't know if I feel stronger, or

if it was the phone was my shield, or sister is my shield to nada or a

combination. Whatever the reason I let it all out.

She on the other hand was cold as ice. Calm, cool, calculated, no emotions like

a robot.

I told her I could not be the maid of honor in her best interest and my own. I

gave her some reasons. But she said " It's a big decision and I am giving you

till January. But the same rules apply you have to make up with mom and dad and

the family. " I said " you don't need to give me till January; my answer will be

the same. " She said " It's my wedding and that's what family does " So basically

now I get to have this conversation a third time, yippy.

I also found out nada is up to the same bs like always and dishrag is the

typical dishrag. Nada is inviting her foo, plus dishrags mothers brothers (who

just screwed dishrags foo out of hundreds of thousands in a family business

deal) so needless to say there is LOTS of bad blood there! This is nada throwing

salt in the wounds and trying to hurt dishrags foo at the highest level. I told

my sister " you do realize why they are invited and not dishrags foo? " and she

said " I know what your insinuating that's not how it is. " I said well even if

that's not how it is, that's how it will be perceived, but it's your wedding so

do what you need to. " As always Nada is making the guest list, Dishrag has no

spine to stand up not sure is my sister is calculated or boneheaded.

Sister also accused a sister of dishrag of calling her an " f-ing little slut

just like your mom " during a conversation, something I know NEVER happened,

because the conversation was about 60 seconds long and I was there the whole

time with 2 other witnesses what my aunt did say was " your mom is mentally ill "

and this is true. It's crazy how a mind can be poisoned in such a short time. I

can't believe the brainwashing that takes place. The funny thing is supposedly I

am brainwashed, I guess cuz I don't put up with the crap anymore.

You know that saying all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to do

nothing. I don't want to do nothing. I am so mad. I want to help my grandma she

is so old and frail. I am sorry for her pain and this is killing her. Dishrag is

such a hypocrite to just let this all happen.

I guess there was a lot more, but I don't want to write a novel so talk to

you soon. LB