Guest guest Posted September 2, 2010 Report Share Posted September 2, 2010 Dear Crazy, My partner and I eloped for the reasons you give. I didn't want my BPD mother in law to ruin our day. She is infamous for creating an unpleasant scene and/or chaos where ever she goes. We announced our marriage after the fact to others, but we still haven't told her because she will have nothing nice to say. > > Your situation sounds very similar to mine - although my brother and sisters arent quite up to talking about what is wrong with mum yet. > > My partners family is very close, and although I enjoy being around them I find it bizarre - like watching an episode of the Brady Bunch. I have told them some of the things my mother does, and my partner has met her twice - and he said " she is so normal! " which is so hard to deal with. I dont want to have a wedding simply so I dont have to get all the family together around her. I would rather not have a " big day " than deal with her - I think my partners family will be very upset, but I have seen the huge problems she caused with my siblings weddings and I just dont want to go there. > > When I have children she will never be left alone with them. Better to be safe than sorry. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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