My sis.....a carbon copy of NADA

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So I've been back to NC with nada because she doesn't want a relationship with

me as long as I'm talking to my dad. I knew my sis was upset about it, too

because she is so enmeshed with nada.

My sis and I have had minimal interaction with each other lately because we work

for the same company. Although she did reject me when I tried to give her some

baked goods that I had made. I expected it.

Anyway, today I gave her a call, and she didn't answer. So I left her a message

saying that I hope she's having a good weekend, and that I was thinking of her.

She sent me a text back a few minutes later and it said:

Hey I just got your message. Hope all is well. things aren't the same and I

don't know how to handle it right now. It's hard for me to just call you up and

act like nothing is wrong. Love you and hope you are having a good weekend.

So basically She's doing the same thing my nada is doing. Saying " I love you,

but I want nothing to do with you " .

Does that make sense? IF you love someone do you not want them in your life?

Neither of them freaking love me. I never want to hear that from then again.

~Sara Jo