Nada reverses facts..... Infuriating!

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I don't know if any of you have nadas that do this but I can't seem to let this

one go, I am really stewing over it. My nada has reversed, and twisted some

things I have told her so that she has things utterly backwards. As usual.

I am LC with my nada but recently I spoke with her because it was her birthday.

During the breif phone conversation I stupidly mentioned something about

currently looking for a new job. (background, I am having difficulty with my

current supervisor and I swear supervisor is NPD) Nada is aware of the problem

in an only superficialy way. I have complained to nada in the past about my

bosses' horrible ineptitude as a manager and ongoing micromanagement among other

issues.

Well, nada says to me " It sounds like this woman is very intimidating. " Um

excuse me? I don't know how nada always manages to reverse the situation and

twist the facts into completely the opposite of what's really going on. I

replied " Intimidating? The woman is an idiot mom. " I don't feel intimidated by

the supervisor, only that I can't work with someone who is so inept.

Nada has ALWAYS done this. I should learn, even with LC I CANNOT tell nada

anything or I will inevitably find myself fuming and annoyed. Do they do this on

purpose? I don't know why this is bothering me so much but I just HATE when she

does this and I can't quite put my finger on why. I guess it's a trigger of some

sort.

I have a lot of memories about nada twisting my words to make me look like the

jerk in every situation. Sometimes nada will just insert facts that aren't

actually facts and I don't know where she gets this stuff from.

Arrrrghhhhhhh!!!!

Ah, ok I am done. Feeling a little better now. LOL