Re: My sis.....a carbon copy of NADA

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I'm going to toss another perspective on your sister's message. My thoughts

will be in caps following each of her sentences.

" Hey I just got your message.

I'M GLAD YOU CALLED AND BROKE THE ICE AND I'M GOING AGAINST MY OWN REACTIONS TO

RETURN YOUR CALL.

Hope all is well.

I REALLY LOVE YOU, I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT.I'M JUST AFRAID TO ADMIT IT.

things aren't the same and I don't know how to handle it right now.

WHAT IF YOU'RE RIGHT? I HAVE A SNEAKING SUSPICION YOU MAY BE...

It's hard for me to just call you up and

act like nothing is wrong.

EVERYTHING SUCKS. EVERYTHING IS WRONG. YOU MAY BE RIGHT. I NEED TO TALK ABOUT

IT BUT I'M AFRAID OF NADA AND THE LONG TERM EFFECTS.

Love you and hope you are having a good weekend. " I REALLY REALLY MEAN IT!

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> So I've been back to NC with nada because she doesn't want a relationship with

me as long as I'm talking to my dad. I knew my sis was upset about it, too

because she is so enmeshed with nada.

> My sis and I have had minimal interaction with each other lately because we

work for the same company. Although she did reject me when I tried to give her

some baked goods that I had made. I expected it.

> Anyway, today I gave her a call, and she didn't answer. So I left her a

message saying that I hope she's having a good weekend, and that I was thinking

of her.

> She sent me a text back a few minutes later and it said:

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> Hey I just got your message. Hope all is well. things aren't the same and I

don't know how to handle it right now. It's hard for me to just call you up and

act like nothing is wrong. Love you and hope you are having a good weekend.

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> So basically She's doing the same thing my nada is doing. Saying " I love you,

but I want nothing to do with you " .

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> Does that make sense? IF you love someone do you not want them in your life?

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> Neither of them freaking love me. I never want to hear that from then again.

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> ~Sara Jo

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