Re: Newbie Newbie

[Guest guest]

Welcome to the club! It took me 50 years to find a label for my nada's

behavior, she's never been to a psychiatrist to get a diagnosis, because there's

nothing wrong with her, in fact she's perfect and she'll be quite happy to tell

you so. Finding out the truth is validating and healing on one hand and sad,

depressing, and sickening on the other. I had to take a year break from this

group because of the latter reasons, it gets overwhelming at times to have all

the past rise to the surface. I hope you find here the support you need.

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> Hello,

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> Until today, I didn't even know BPD existed. Last week, I was bawling my eyes

out beyond all frustration with my parent...begging God for answers. Today, a

friend (from another city) called me because a book " Stop Walking on Eggshells "

was loaned to her by a friend. Over the phone, she read me the list of 9

questions. I answered " YES " to 8 of them!

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> I've hit dead-ends before...

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[Guest guest]

Hi! I'm new to this as well. I have researched so many things trying to figure

out what could be wrong with her over the years. My counselor who I have been

seeing for a few years because I just couldn't handle my mom any more. She

suggested bpd I started researching it and sure enough its her to a capital T! I

hope this support group will help both of us! Its been a long road

>Hello,

>

>Until today, I didn't even know BPD existed. Last week, I was bawling my eyes

out beyond all frustration with my parent...begging God for answers. Today, a

friend (from another city) called me because a book " Stop Walking on Eggshells "

was loaned to her by a friend. Over the phone, she read me the list of 9

questions. I answered " YES " to 8 of them!

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>I've hit dead-ends before...

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