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This morning when the Lord opened a window to Heaven, he saw me, and he asked:My child, what is your greatest wish for today?I responded:"Lord please; take care of the person who is reading this message, their family and their special friends.They deserve it and I love them very much"The love of God is like the ocean, you can see its beginnings but Not its end.This message works on the day you receive it.To some it

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In a message dated 10/18/2006 1:25:56 PM Eastern Standard Time,

huie@... writes:

and (I am adding this one) imitative behavior.

Boy do I hear you on this one cause that is what we are experiencing this

year. Micah had exemplary behavior last year. This year all of a sudden he

started pushing, hitting etc. Instead of just pointing out his bad behavior I

asked teacher to watch what was hapening just BEFORE bad behavior. She said

" well come to think of it he has been only having this behavior in

unstructured time. " ie lunch, playground etc There are 3 kids in the class who

have

behavioral issues that I know about and one of them was on the bus with him.

His bus driver told me that this little boy and micah would " play " hitting and

shoving. Micah didn't know that this wasn't playing and it carried over

into classroom which by the way this little boy is in. After talking with

teacher I haven't heard anymore about bad behavior. Went in to school for his

birthday monday and aid told me that she is keeping him away from 4 kids.

Voila " bad " behavior gone. Now sttubborn behavior that is another issue lol!!

Loree

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Very interesting, have to say I agree with what she says. I could close my eyes

and see in many of her explanations.

The giving of instructions was one that it took forever for some teachers to

get. You know, some people use 20 words when 10 would do, and needs the

10 words. Simple, few words and to the point. Also giving your full attention

to and not trying to multitask at the time.

Also, differentiating between immature behavior, bad behavior, and (I am adding

this one) imitative behavior.

All in all, I think she says it well.

Sharon H.

Mom to , (15, DS) and , (11)

South Carolina

" Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of

battle. "

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An extra little chromosome,

that's all it is, you see.

Where all of you were born with two,

I was blessed with three

" My Children are God's gift to me.

How I raise them, is my gift to God. "

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This reminds me of a friend back home who has a daughter with DS that is 5

months younger than . She and have been best friends since was

6 months old.

Anyway, my friend was having trouble with the day care that went to after

school. was getting in trouble for spitting, and hitting. Now she knew

this wasn't 's norm, had a meeting with the director. Come to find out,

was imitating the behavior she was seeing two boys do in the afternoons.

Of course, 's mom was the only one getting phone calls about it. Seems the

behavior microscope was on (are we surprised? - not). Once the behaviors

were addressed not only with , but the two boys initiating the behaviors,

things greatly improved.

Sharon H.

Mom to , (15, DS) and , (11)

South Carolina

" Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of

battle. "

Re: look at this

In a message dated 10/18/2006 1:25:56 PM Eastern Standard Time, huie@...

writes:

and (I am adding this one) imitative behavior.

Boy do I hear you on this one cause that is what we are experiencing this

year. Micah had exemplary behavior last year. This year all of a sudden he

started pushing, hitting etc. Instead of just pointing out his bad behavior I

asked teacher to watch what was hapening just BEFORE bad behavior. She said

" well come to think of it he has been only having this behavior in unstructured

time. " ie lunch, playground etc There are 3 kids in the class who have

behavioral issues that I know about and one of them was on the bus with him.

His bus driver told me that this little boy and micah would " play " hitting and

shoving. Micah didn't know that this wasn't playing and it carried over into

classroom which by the way this little boy is in. After talking with teacher I

haven't heard anymore about bad behavior. Went in to school for his birthday

monday and aid told me that she is keeping him away from 4 kids. Voila " bad "

behavior gone. Now sttubborn behavior that is another issue lol!!

Loree

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I had this with tim when he was around 7-8 at school. His behaviour became

increasingly antisocial, hitting kids and teachers etc. turned out it was older

boys on the playground telling him to do it and him wanting to please. The

school never actually addressed the problem though, tim got into more and more

trouble and finally I removed him from the school because it was affecting his

behaiour at home too.

sue w

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In a message dated 10/18/2006 1:25:56 PM Eastern Standard Time, huie@...

writes:

and (I am adding this one) imitative behavior.

Boy do I hear you on this one cause that is what we are experiencing this

year. Micah had exemplary behavior last year. This year all of a sudden he

started pushing, hitting etc. Instead of just pointing out his bad behavior I

asked teacher to watch what was hapening just BEFORE bad behavior. She said

" well come to think of it he has been only having this behavior in unstructured

time. " ie lunch, playground etc There are 3 kids in the class who have

behavioral issues that I know about and one of them was on the bus with him. His

bus driver told me that this little boy and micah would " play " hitting and

shoving. Micah didn't know that this wasn't playing and it carried over into

classroom which by the way this little boy is in. After talking with teacher I

haven't heard anymore about bad behavior. Went in to school for his birthday

monday and aid told me that she is keeping him away from 4 kids. Voila " bad "

behavior gone. Now sttubborn behavior that is another issue ol!!

Loree

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One bad thing about inclusion is our kids pick up bad stuff along with the

good.

In our case, when Nic learns something " bad " it takes months and months to

undo it. I think what happens is, he sees the reactions he gets when he does

it and loves the extra attention ( and he thinks it's funny). It's very

important everyone praises and reacts to the positive behaviors and try not

to make a huge deal of the negative.

JMO

Di

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>

> In a message dated 10/18/2006 1:25:56 PM Eastern Standard Time,

> huie@... writes:

>

> and (I am adding this one) imitative behavior.

>

>

>

> Boy do I hear you on this one cause that is what we are experiencing this

> year. Micah had exemplary behavior last year. This year all of a sudden

> he

> started pushing, hitting etc. Instead of just pointing out his bad

> behavior I

> asked teacher to watch what was hapening just BEFORE bad behavior. She

> said

> " well come to think of it he has been only having this behavior in

> unstructured time. " ie lunch, playground etc There are 3 kids in the

> class who have

> behavioral issues that I know about and one of them was on the bus with

> him.

> His bus driver told me that this little boy and micah would " play "

> hitting and

> shoving. Micah didn't know that this wasn't playing and it carried over

> into classroom which by the way this little boy is in. After talking

> with

> teacher I haven't heard anymore about bad behavior. Went in to school

> for his

> birthday monday and aid told me that she is keeping him away from 4

> kids.

> Voila " bad " behavior gone. Now sttubborn behavior that is another issue

> lol!!

>

> Loree

>

>

>

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