Re: my BP Mom hates my husband...

[Guest guest]

My BP mother-in-law treats all of her childrens' spouses with hostility and

contempt. I believe that it would please her if her children all got divorced

so that they would focus on her needs exclusively!

[Guest guest]

Marcie,

sorry it took me so long to get back with you... I have been busy lately with my

kids soccer, school...etc.....

I try to get on here when I get the chance and yes, I would love to talk with

you... you are welcome to email me at mamahintz@.... I have been in

therapy for a very long time... (I am 31 and most of my adult life I have been

in and out of therapy...) My current therapist is the best I have ever seen.. I

have been seeing her for about one year... She understands BPD better than

anyone I have ever come in contact with...

Your situation does seem very similar... I think we would have a lot to talk

about! Look forward to hearing from you!

Jen

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even know where to begin...but I am desperate for some advice or at least

someone to relate to. I am almost 31 and still struggling with the impact of my

Mom's BP on my life. It has gotten worse over the past 5 years than it ever was

when I was growing up (didn't even know what it was until the past few years).

At any rate, I got married 4 years ago...have a beautiful 20mo. old baby girl

and recently found out I am pregnant again. I am struggling because for the past

few years my mom has found a ton of things wrong with my husband. Some months

are better than others, but overall I feel like I am stuck in a cycle of her

having a solid way of doing things/opinions that are stated to be the gospel and

negative comments about everything my husband is and does. I am extremely upset

and anxious over this, especially now that I am about to have another child. My

mom has always been a big

> part of my life and she does have keen insight, but she tends to only focus

on one side of a person...not the person as a whole. My husband is beyond

frustrated and not able to understand her mental condition, and I feel

completely helpless. Has anyone else dealt with anything similar??

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