Re: Re: Fun for all - Family Tree Assignment

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Yeah, I just did mine based on what I already knew - no NC was violated.

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> You know, I was thinking about it - like what if I HAD to do it.

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> Here is what I think would happen: she would be really happy to talk to me,

> she would cry when I leave, but she would help me. THEN after I left, she

> would think about it, and think about it, and think about it, and she would

> feel used, and angry and she would call everyone she knows to tell them what

> an asshole I am and how I used her and now I won't talk to her. And everyone

> in the family would get angry, and it would cause everyone (especially her)

> a lot of harm.

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> So now I'm thinking that it would just be a bad idea all around.

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> Deanna

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> > I agree about maintaining your boundaries with NC - but if you can do a

> > little of it, it could be an interesting exercise for you. I just did it

> > with what I know of my family tree, and it was very hard, but worthwhile.

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