Re: wicked witch possibly dead

[Guest guest]

Don't let it trigger you too much, because it could just be a nada trick.

I'd wait to see proof before I celebrated. Oooh, did I just say that out

loud? I'm going straight to hell - or home to read more of People of the

Lie. Anyone read that one? It's a good one.

>

>

> still waiting for that one...she'll probably outlive us all, she's so

> ornery

> !! but my father died this past may...he and I were very close until 2

> years ago when he turned on me and was just as nasty as nada...he called me

>

> a terrible daughter several times, said I was a big disappointment...so I

> backed way away from him...when he died ( and still yet) I'm not happy, but

>

> I'm not sad either...I have no care if he's here or not. He never protected

>

> me from her, he never supported me..several years ago when nada had a heart

>

> attack and fada called to tell me..my attitude was just like if he had told

>

> me Mr from 3 blocks over had a heart attack...it was " oh, thats too

> bad " then I thought, hm, I wonder what I should fix for dinner...maybe

> tacos....so totally indifferent...

>

> Jackie

>

>

> Guys,

> Had a weird phone call, evidently either nada has died or is pending to die

>

> or it's a cruel joke because my work got a strange call from a hospital

> asking for what funeral home to send my nada too. Sorry maybe I had an

> idea,

> but haven't spoken to her in 6 years so I don't have any real idea NOt to

> mention I ain't going to any funeral of hers anyhow. It's one of those

> situations wher I explained to the lady that her siblings wouldn't know

> anything either because she chased all of us off/treated us like shit.I

> cried for awhile, but I tookl my little man and dog out for a walk and

> realized I'm fianlly free, nada can't hurt me anymore for sure, not

> probably

> not, but she can't, her friends should stop bothering me and I never have

> to

> worry about her hurting my small boy like she did me. Pretty horrible to

> feel such relief from somethign so bad. HOw have the rest of you reeacted

> to

> loosing your nadas

>

> more later

> Marie

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

First thought in my head is that maybe it's a call to see if you " care " . Or

react, or whatever.

You know the games that they play. I wouldn't put it past either my mother or

step mother to do something like that.

Hell, my step nada has been promosing to die soon for the last 20 years.

[Guest guest]

I've heard that " People of the Lie " is good, and that its mostly about those

with narcissistic pd and/or antisocial pd (antisocial pd is a.k.a. sociopathic

pd and psychopathic pd; both were earlier terms for antisocial pd.)

Since my nada has narcissistic pd traits and a smattering of antisocial pd

traits, I'd like to read that book. There are several books I'm interested in

reading: " Daughters of Madness " , " Will I Ever Be Good Enough " , and " The

Sociopath Next Door " .

An older book called " The Mask of Sanity " by Hervey Cleckley is out of print but

can be downloaded as a pdf file. I've read excerpts from that book and its very

interesting and informative.

Educating ourselves about mental health and mental illness is invaluable;

Knowledge is Power!

-Annie

>

> >

> >

> > still waiting for that one...she'll probably outlive us all, she's so

> > ornery

> > !! but my father died this past may...he and I were very close until 2

> > years ago when he turned on me and was just as nasty as nada...he called me

> >

> > a terrible daughter several times, said I was a big disappointment...so I

> > backed way away from him...when he died ( and still yet) I'm not happy, but

> >

> > I'm not sad either...I have no care if he's here or not. He never protected

> >

> > me from her, he never supported me..several years ago when nada had a heart

> >

> > attack and fada called to tell me..my attitude was just like if he had told

> >

> > me Mr from 3 blocks over had a heart attack...it was " oh, thats too

> > bad " then I thought, hm, I wonder what I should fix for dinner...maybe

> > tacos....so totally indifferent...

> >

> > Jackie

> >

> >

> > Guys,

> > Had a weird phone call, evidently either nada has died or is pending to die

> >

> > or it's a cruel joke because my work got a strange call from a hospital

> > asking for what funeral home to send my nada too. Sorry maybe I had an

> > idea,

> > but haven't spoken to her in 6 years so I don't have any real idea NOt to

> > mention I ain't going to any funeral of hers anyhow. It's one of those

> > situations wher I explained to the lady that her siblings wouldn't know

> > anything either because she chased all of us off/treated us like shit.I

> > cried for awhile, but I tookl my little man and dog out for a walk and

> > realized I'm fianlly free, nada can't hurt me anymore for sure, not

> > probably

> > not, but she can't, her friends should stop bothering me and I never have

> > to

> > worry about her hurting my small boy like she did me. Pretty horrible to

> > feel such relief from somethign so bad. HOw have the rest of you reeacted

> > to

> > loosing your nadas

> >

> > more later

> > Marie

> >

> >

> >

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Yep I think that is part of the case, kinda wierd they would want to know a

funeral home only to send her to and relatives and that a chaplain would call, I

think because he/she might have been manipulated to try to deal with poor LONELY

nada, well she drove everyone away and now she reaps what she sows.  THat's

what I told the lady is she drove us all off so sorry don't know and her

realtives won't care

I did talk to a lawyer to make dang sure I'm not responsible for any of her

bullshit and luckily I'm not.  Just gonna keep an eye on the obits and see.

proflaf

Subject: Re: wicked witch possibly dead

To: WTOAdultChildren1

Date: Tuesday, August 10, 2010, 7:34 AM

 

First thought in my head is that maybe it's a call to see if you " care " . Or

react, or whatever.

You know the games that they play. I wouldn't put it past either my mother or

step mother to do something like that.

Hell, my step nada has been promosing to die soon for the last 20 years.

[Guest guest]

Well so far still nothing in the death notices/obits, makes me pretty danged

sure that she just manipulated the hospital into bothering me I did let her

sister know what's going on, pretty sure she's gogin to avoid the sitauiton

too. Although I did mention might not be a bad idea to let the hospital know

that themselves just to verify my story that she was nasty to everyone and

nobody truly knows anythign about her so let us be.

prolfaf1

Subject: Re: wicked witch possibly dead

To: WTOAdultChildren1

Date: Tuesday, August 10, 2010, 7:34 AM

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First thought in my head is that maybe it's a call to see if you " care " . Or

react, or whatever.

You know the games that they play. I wouldn't put it past either my mother or

step mother to do something like that.

Hell, my step nada has been promosing to die soon for the last 20 years.