Guest guest Posted August 29, 2010 Report Share Posted August 29, 2010 I have been thinking recently about a former friend (BPD) and her son (KO). Don't think her son has any idea what's going on, and I strongly suspect he's been split black. Which all of you know is a special sort of hell. Anyway the BPD recently tried to hoover me back in on facebook and I ignored her. But I can't stop thinking about her son, who is probably around 18 now. Perhaps it's worth looking him up and giving him a link to the indicators site to see if he finds anything familiar there. I just remember him having the same sad listless " why bother " look that I had in high school. Just hope that the earlier he knows, maybe the more he can prevent the toxicity and the earlier he can start healing. Is it right to try this? Is it wrong not to? What are your thoughts? Tina > > > > I just keep turning over in my mind how injust it is for the KOs, and how society willingly turns away from this evil in the home. What can we do, as KOs, to save the next generation? > > > > I wish we could make this board required reading for every mandatory reporter. There is no denying our experience. > > > > What can we do?? > > > > Seriously -- please, if you have ideas -- please share them. > > > > Laying awake at night, > > Tina > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 3, 2010 Report Share Posted September 3, 2010 yes, this is a very important thot and question and i agonize over it too.. i suppose education is what is needed at the level society seems to be at now.. i think especially education about mental illness in general, that it is as simple and similar as any physical illness or injury, like a broken arm or high blood pressure, only it involves the brain.. a mysterious thing to a lot of people, but never the less just as much a part of our physical bodies as any other part, again like an arm, or our blood vessels that sometimes get 'broken' and need attention by a physician and help to heal, a cast or medication. Â it is sad to me that we are so far back in this process, so mired in stigmas about mental illness that people are so afraid to get help.. when we can as a society begin to get over this, as is happening i think, slowly to be sure (too slowly for my taste as these children, ko's are suffering under the control of mentally ill people as bpd's are in my opinion). Â Â just some thots i have on the subject, hope they help even just a little.ann Subject: Required Reading To: WTOAdultChildren1 Date: Saturday, August 28, 2010, 6:29 PM Â I just keep turning over in my mind how injust it is for the KOs, and how society willingly turns away from this evil in the home. What can we do, as KOs, to save the next generation? I wish we could make this board required reading for every mandatory reporter. There is no denying our experience. What can we do?? Seriously -- please, if you have ideas -- please share them. Laying awake at night, Tina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2010 Report Share Posted September 4, 2010 maybe we could make a documentary..Like those afte school specials. We can each tell our stories. Showing how BPD is ignored and how abusive and harmful it is to children and families. Send it to the courts..the schools. There are enough of us I think that it may work as a regular TV program..people love to see other peoples problems and dysfunctions . Take a look at what our children are watching now...Pregnant teen moms struggling....Drug addiction intervention....Reality shows. Why not shows that depicts our lives growing up and how badly we were treated and how it has made us today...How we struggle to me normal. Stefanie > > > yes, this is a very important thot and question and i agonize over it too.. > i suppose education is what is needed at the level society seems to be at > now.. i think especially education about mental illness in general, that it > is as simple and similar as any physical illness or injury, like a broken > arm or high blood pressure, only it involves the brain.. a mysterious thing > to a lot of people, but never the less just as much a part of our physical > bodies as any other part, again like an arm, or our blood vessels that > sometimes get 'broken' and need attention by a physician and help to heal, a > cast or medication. > it is sad to me that we are so far back in this process, so mired in > stigmas about mental illness that people are so afraid to get help.. when we > can as a society begin to get over this, as is happening i think, slowly to > be sure (too slowly for my taste as these children, ko's are suffering under > the control of mentally ill people as bpd's are in my opinion). > just some thots i have on the subject, hope they help even just a > little.ann > > > > From: Tina <tina_newton@... <tina_newton%40sbcglobal.net>> > Subject: Required Reading > To: WTOAdultChildren1 <WTOAdultChildren1%40yahoogroups.com> > Date: Saturday, August 28, 2010, 6:29 PM > > > > I just keep turning over in my mind how injust it is for the KOs, and how > society willingly turns away from this evil in the home. What can we do, as > KOs, to save the next generation? > > I wish we could make this board required reading for every mandatory > reporter. There is no denying our experience. > > What can we do?? > > Seriously -- please, if you have ideas -- please share them. > > Laying awake at night, > > Tina > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2010 Report Share Posted September 4, 2010 That gives me an idea - what about something like a reality series? I'm not sure how it would work, or even if its a good idea, but we could play on that concept. Reality is SO big these days. On Sat, Sep 4, 2010 at 11:14 AM, Stefanie Low wrote: > maybe we could make a documentary..Like those afte school specials. We > can > each tell our stories. Showing how BPD is ignored and how abusive and > harmful it is to children and families. Send it to the courts..the > schools. > > There are enough of us I think that it may work as a regular TV > program..people love to see other peoples problems and dysfunctions . Take > a look at what our children are watching now...Pregnant teen moms > struggling....Drug addiction intervention....Reality shows. Why not shows > that depicts our lives growing up and how badly we were treated and how it > has made us today...How we struggle to me normal. > > Stefanie > > > > > > > > > > yes, this is a very important thot and question and i agonize over it > too.. > > i suppose education is what is needed at the level society seems to be at > > now.. i think especially education about mental illness in general, that > it > > is as simple and similar as any physical illness or injury, like a broken > > arm or high blood pressure, only it involves the brain.. a mysterious > thing > > to a lot of people, but never the less just as much a part of our > physical > > bodies as any other part, again like an arm, or our blood vessels that > > sometimes get 'broken' and need attention by a physician and help to > heal, a > > cast or medication. > > it is sad to me that we are so far back in this process, so mired in > > stigmas about mental illness that people are so afraid to get help.. when > we > > can as a society begin to get over this, as is happening i think, slowly > to > > be sure (too slowly for my taste as these children, ko's are suffering > under > > the control of mentally ill people as bpd's are in my opinion). > > just some thots i have on the subject, hope they help even just a > > little.ann > > > > > > > > From: Tina <tina_newton@... <tina_newton%40sbcglobal.net>> > > Subject: Required Reading > > To: WTOAdultChildren1 <WTOAdultChildren1% > 40yahoogroups.com> > > Date: Saturday, August 28, 2010, 6:29 PM > > > > > > > > I just keep turning over in my mind how injust it is for the KOs, and how > > society willingly turns away from this evil in the home. What can we do, > as > > KOs, to save the next generation? > > > > I wish we could make this board required reading for every mandatory > > reporter. There is no denying our experience. > > > > What can we do?? > > > > Seriously -- please, if you have ideas -- please share them. > > > > Laying awake at night, > > > > Tina > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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