Re: Update:Talked to sis about being MOH

[Guest guest]

You guys are all so kind and amazing. Thank you for helping me through these

difficult decisions and helping me with my will power! You have truly been such

a HUGE help in clearing the FOG and you all have made wonderful points. It's

great to have these reminders. I love having this group to help keep me

accountable. It can be so easy to cave to baby sister, but I need to remember to

protect me too. Thank you! LB

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> > Hello, just and update. I called my sis yesterday and talked to her about

being her Maid of Honor. In some ways it was a good talk in others it was just

wacked out.

> >

> > I was highly emotional while talking to her. I don't know if I feel

stronger, or if it was the phone was my shield, or sister is my shield to nada

or a combination. Whatever the reason I let it all out.

> >

> > She on the other hand was cold as ice. Calm, cool, calculated, no emotions

like a robot.

> >

> > I told her I could not be the maid of honor in her best interest and my own.

I gave her some reasons. But she said " It's a big decision and I am giving you

till January. But the same rules apply you have to make up with mom and dad and

the family. " I said " you don't need to give me till January; my answer will be

the same. " She said " It's my wedding and that's what family does " So basically

now I get to have this conversation a third time, yippy.

> >

> > I also found out nada is up to the same bs like always and dishrag is the

typical dishrag. Nada is inviting her foo, plus dishrags mothers brothers (who

just screwed dishrags foo out of hundreds of thousands in a family business

deal) so needless to say there is LOTS of bad blood there! This is nada throwing

salt in the wounds and trying to hurt dishrags foo at the highest level. I told

my sister " you do realize why they are invited and not dishrags foo? " and she

said " I know what your insinuating that's not how it is. " I said well even if

that's not how it is, that's how it will be perceived, but it's your wedding so

do what you need to. " As always Nada is making the guest list, Dishrag has no

spine to stand up not sure is my sister is calculated or boneheaded.

> >

> > Sister also accused a sister of dishrag of calling her an " f-ing little slut

just like your mom " during a conversation, something I know NEVER happened,

because the conversation was about 60 seconds long and I was there the whole

time with 2 other witnesses what my aunt did say was " your mom is mentally ill "

and this is true. It's crazy how a mind can be poisoned in such a short time. I

can't believe the brainwashing that takes place. The funny thing is supposedly I

am brainwashed, I guess cuz I don't put up with the crap anymore.

> >

> > You know that saying all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to do

nothing. I don't want to do nothing. I am so mad. I want to help my grandma she

is so old and frail. I am sorry for her pain and this is killing her. Dishrag is

such a hypocrite to just let this all happen.

> >

> > I guess there was a lot more, but I don't want to write a novel so talk

to you soon. LB

> >

>

[Guest guest]

that's what I thought, wow, is she afraid her wedding is going to be boring?

because, wow...most brides do not want anyone stealing their thunder on their

wedding day and she seems to be trying to create as much drama as possible. very

strange. I honestly would probably avoid this wedding even if i was just a

spectator.

> >

> > Hello, just and update. I called my sis yesterday and talked to her about

being her Maid of Honor. In some ways it was a good talk in others it was just

wacked out.

> >

> > I was highly emotional while talking to her. I don't know if I feel

stronger, or if it was the phone was my shield, or sister is my shield to nada

or a combination. Whatever the reason I let it all out.

> >

> > She on the other hand was cold as ice. Calm, cool, calculated, no emotions

like a robot.

> >

> > I told her I could not be the maid of honor in her best interest and my own.

I gave her some reasons. But she said " It's a big decision and I am giving you

till January. But the same rules apply you have to make up with mom and dad and

the family. " I said " you don't need to give me till January; my answer will be

the same. " She said " It's my wedding and that's what family does " So basically

now I get to have this conversation a third time, yippy.

> >

> > I also found out nada is up to the same bs like always and dishrag is the

typical dishrag. Nada is inviting her foo, plus dishrags mothers brothers (who

just screwed dishrags foo out of hundreds of thousands in a family business

deal) so needless to say there is LOTS of bad blood there! This is nada throwing

salt in the wounds and trying to hurt dishrags foo at the highest level. I told

my sister " you do realize why they are invited and not dishrags foo? " and she

said " I know what your insinuating that's not how it is. " I said well even if

that's not how it is, that's how it will be perceived, but it's your wedding so

do what you need to. " As always Nada is making the guest list, Dishrag has no

spine to stand up not sure is my sister is calculated or boneheaded.

> >

> > Sister also accused a sister of dishrag of calling her an " f-ing little slut

just like your mom " during a conversation, something I know NEVER happened,

because the conversation was about 60 seconds long and I was there the whole

time with 2 other witnesses what my aunt did say was " your mom is mentally ill "

and this is true. It's crazy how a mind can be poisoned in such a short time. I

can't believe the brainwashing that takes place. The funny thing is supposedly I

am brainwashed, I guess cuz I don't put up with the crap anymore.

> >

> > You know that saying all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to do

nothing. I don't want to do nothing. I am so mad. I want to help my grandma she

is so old and frail. I am sorry for her pain and this is killing her. Dishrag is

such a hypocrite to just let this all happen.

> >

> > I guess there was a lot more, but I don't want to write a novel so talk

to you soon. LB

> >

>

[Guest guest]

I am very puzzled by how she is acting as well. She is so 2 faced about this

whole ordeal. Just as you said, in one way she is so concerned about me

" stealing her thunder " but in the next breath it is almost as if she is trying

to stir the pot, create drama and sabotage me. It could be she has extensive

personality problems of her own learned from nada, or it could be she is still

very young and confused. Whatever the case I don't trust her. I am not one to

believe people are out to get me. I do however watch my back whenever nada and

her crowd are involved… That said, I am staying far away as possible. LB

> > >

> > > Hello, just and update. I called my sis yesterday and talked to her about

being her Maid of Honor. In some ways it was a good talk in others it was just

wacked out.

> > >

> > > I was highly emotional while talking to her. I don't know if I feel

stronger, or if it was the phone was my shield, or sister is my shield to nada

or a combination. Whatever the reason I let it all out.

> > >

> > > She on the other hand was cold as ice. Calm, cool, calculated, no emotions

like a robot.

> > >

> > > I told her I could not be the maid of honor in her best interest and my

own. I gave her some reasons. But she said " It's a big decision and I am giving

you till January. But the same rules apply you have to make up with mom and dad

and the family. " I said " you don't need to give me till January; my answer will

be the same. " She said " It's my wedding and that's what family does " So

basically now I get to have this conversation a third time, yippy.

> > >

> > > I also found out nada is up to the same bs like always and dishrag is the

typical dishrag. Nada is inviting her foo, plus dishrags mothers brothers (who

just screwed dishrags foo out of hundreds of thousands in a family business

deal) so needless to say there is LOTS of bad blood there! This is nada throwing

salt in the wounds and trying to hurt dishrags foo at the highest level. I told

my sister " you do realize why they are invited and not dishrags foo? " and she

said " I know what your insinuating that's not how it is. " I said well even if

that's not how it is, that's how it will be perceived, but it's your wedding so

do what you need to. " As always Nada is making the guest list, Dishrag has no

spine to stand up not sure is my sister is calculated or boneheaded.

> > >

> > > Sister also accused a sister of dishrag of calling her an " f-ing little

slut just like your mom " during a conversation, something I know NEVER happened,

because the conversation was about 60 seconds long and I was there the whole

time with 2 other witnesses what my aunt did say was " your mom is mentally ill "

and this is true. It's crazy how a mind can be poisoned in such a short time. I

can't believe the brainwashing that takes place. The funny thing is supposedly I

am brainwashed, I guess cuz I don't put up with the crap anymore.

> > >

> > > You know that saying all it takes for evil to triumph is for good men to

do nothing. I don't want to do nothing. I am so mad. I want to help my grandma

she is so old and frail. I am sorry for her pain and this is killing her.

Dishrag is such a hypocrite to just let this all happen.

> > >

> > > I guess there was a lot more, but I don't want to write a novel so talk

to you soon. LB

> > >

> >

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