Guest guest Posted September 9, 2010 Report Share Posted September 9, 2010 My nada's parents were abusive assholes. They were NPD at least I believe, but I don't really know what their exact problem was. I just know that they produced my nada and her brother, and the both of them are completely crazy. I know her father beat the crap out of her until she left their house at 20. I know she spent much of her childhood hiding in a closet from them. 2 years ago her mother got ovarian cancer and died. Her dad has been miserable since, and wanting to die as well. Last week, he passed on as well. My grandmother's death was hard on my nada. She loved her mother and hated her, like she does everyone. She liked her dad even less, but it's been hard on her as well. Her last conversation with both of them was arguments and fights. Harder than their actual death has been dealing with the property and money they left. They apparently had a LOT more money in the bank than anyone thought. They had told my nada they were leaving her half the condo, but actually left it all to her brother. They told her they were leaving her half the money, but gave most to her brother and his daughter, and left none to any of her grandchildren. Apparently her mother had taken her out of the will completely and left her nothing, but her dad gave her a little bit. My nada is kinda obsessed with money, especially since my dad lost his job a couple years ago and they've gone from over 100k a year to nothing, and aren't even paying their mortgage anymore. Weirdly, when she was telling me how her mother wrote her in and out of the will, she said that's what she would do too! She seemed to be implying she wouldn't leave me anything (if she had anything to leave). I don't give a shit, though. I already don't ask her for anything, anything she gives has strings attached. So anyway, I've had a stressful week. Luckily I didn't have to go to the funeral (it's on the otherside of the country) cuz nada needed me to take care of her multitude of animals. My cousin that just got a bunch of money has said she's going to have a baby now. My nada is mad at me that I'm not. But if I ever do - I'm going to have to be NC with her. I just can't imagine myself letting any child of mine go anywhere near her. Casey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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