Reconnect or Disconnect?

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Reconnect or Disconnect? By Hoffman

This

is an interesting time for many of us as we are being provided with

opportunities to reconnect with people in our lives or disconnect from

them completely. It is neither good nor bad and there are no judgments

to be made about these relationships, it is simply a time for us to

create relationships and situations that we are comfortable with. And

to let go of those that don't. The decision to reconnect or disconnect

is not personal, it is part of our changing energetic vibrations and a

choice that we may have to make, whether we want to or not. The choice

to hang on or let go is one we are all being presented with and the

choice is entirely ours. One of the more difficult areas of

choice has to do with family and I have done a number of readings with

clients who are faced with choosing the kind of relationship they will

have with family members. A choice that we are all facing is to accept

people as they are, without judging their behavior as anything but what

it is. This choice is particularly difficult when it comes to family

members because these are the people who are 'supposed' to love us and

sometimes they can act in a very unloving way. We can spend a

great deal of time and energy wishing people were different, would

treat us better, say kind things, be more respectful. When they don't

we take it very personally. The choice we are faced with is easy and

has to do with whether this person can be part of our lives as they are

in this moment. Can we make the choice to reconnect and accept them as

they are and not look for them to change? Or, can we detach and

disconnect, having them in our life as they are, or not, and be

comfortable with that choice? Our most difficult teachers are

those who teach us very hard lessons. And some of you have had some

very difficult teachers in your lives. There may have been a time when

you had to live with their behavior. Now you have choices about who is

in your life, choices that come when you move into different energetic

vibrations. When that happens many relationships no longer fit your

energy and you see the gaps that you did not see before. This week,

look at who you are trying to reconnect with or disconnect from. If you

choose the latter, do so without judgment, remembering that each person

is on their path and when you disconnect with one person you create

space to reconnect with someone else. Everything is always in divine

and perfect order and when you reconnect or disconnect without judgment

and in complete acceptance, you create harmony in your life and balance

in all of your relationships.