Re: I'm no therapist (yet), but....

[Guest guest]

you're not paranoid...my mother did that many times over.

Re: I'm no therapist (yet), but....

I am curious ... the BPD person in my life just went to a psychologist,

which was a HUGE step... going back again the next day (!). I am curious how

long until the therapist is split, or if they will be -- how savvy do they

have to be to see through the defenses and excuses, distorted impressions

of things, etc.?

Has anyone had a BPD going to therapy and getting absolutely nowhere

because the T is totally snowed by the BPD?

Am I being paranoid?

[Guest guest]

Hi everybody. I think my mother may have been borderline. I also lived with a

guy who I believe was BPD. I think he had a T fooled. He seemed to be getting

supply from her. I was the bad guy she was the good guy.

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Re: I'm no therapist (yet), but....

I am curious ... the BPD person in my life just went to a psychologist,

which was a HUGE step... going back again the next day (!). I am curious how

long until the therapist is split, or if they will be -- how savvy do they

have to be to see through the defenses and excuses, distorted impressions

of things, etc.?

Has anyone had a BPD going to therapy and getting absolutely nowhere

because the T is totally snowed by the BPD?

Am I being paranoid?

[Guest guest]

Nope my nada did the same things and the last few seemed to thingk she was

getting better when she wasn't at all just appeared to be getting help

Subject: Re: Re: I'm no therapist (yet), but....

To: WTOAdultChildren1

Date: Friday, October 8, 2010, 9:30 PM

 

you're not paranoid...my mother did that many times over.

Re: I'm no therapist (yet), but....

I am curious ... the BPD person in my life just went to a psychologist,

which was a HUGE step... going back again the next day (!). I am curious how

long until the therapist is split, or if they will be -- how savvy do they

have to be to see through the defenses and excuses, distorted impressions

of things, etc.?

Has anyone had a BPD going to therapy and getting absolutely nowhere

because the T is totally snowed by the BPD?

Am I being paranoid?

[Guest guest]

That happened to my husband with his first wife. Their marriage counselor fired

them because he couldn't figure out which one of them was lying to him! The

next counselor diagnosed BPD.