Re: Re: I married a food pusher

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We're happy to be here, Mckella.

I'm one of those people who's not good with words when I'm feeling

emotional, so people CAN verbally push me around if I " m not careful.

So for me, sometimes I have to write things down for a significant

other...and sometimes people who are verbally pushy don't even

realize they're doing it! I'm not saying this is you, just sharing

what I personally experience.

Good luck!

> Thanks guys,

>

> So I think I was venting last night-thanks for listening-and when I

> finally calmed down enough to think straight, I made a list of

> solutions, and , I did decide that maybe getting a light

> lemonade or something would be a good option, because lemonade

> almost always sounds good to me and it won't fill me up too much.

> Also, I could try suggesting other ways to spend time with him.

> I know he pushes me around verbally sometimes, and I can't stand

> conflict so I usually give into whatever it is. Buying something we

> don't need, eating when I don't want to, etc. I've been working on

> being more assertive with him, so we'll see how it goes. Thanks for

> being there!

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