Re: Re: Revelations...it ain't just a book in the Bible

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Seriously who knows what they think!

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> > stories that explain her actions or lack of action are probably

> > equally untrue. I think she mostly believes them though. Nadas

> > tend to be very good at changing reality in their minds until

> > they really don't think they're telling lies.

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> > Trying to turn us against others is another common nada behavior

> > as well. These stories that blame our fathers do that as well as

> > attempting to remove responsibility from our nadas.

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> THIS! So true... so true. They definitely believe their stories. It must

> become absolutely confusing and exhausting to keep track of all of your

> versions of the truth. I think that's why it's just easier in a sense for

> them to just fully integrate their version of a story to be THE version. But

> I can't help but wonder what it does to the psyche when a BPD person has

> split someone to bad -- and them remembers and re-tells a story when they

> were good. THey HAVE to see, one some level, the incongruency... no??????

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