dream work

[Guest guest]

I'm currently working on remembering my dreams with the goal of lucid dreaming -

being aware while dreaming and acting consciously. Based on the dreams I am

remembering so far, I think if I can do lucid dreaming that I might be able to

work out some significant material with my nada. Be able to have the

confrontations that have never been safe in real life, say what I really need to

say. I am already remembering dreams with her in it that mirror real life

issues so I think this will really be possible. Fingers crossed.

A recent dream involved going with her to a Mexican restaurant. I told her

while waiting for a table I didn't want to be there and didn't want Mexican

food. She kept insisting that way what we were doing, skipping past my words as

if I hadn't even said them. Then she also assumed I was paying for the whole

meal. I objected again and she just brushed it off and said well then don't

order much if you don't like it - while still insisting I was paying for all of

it. Her power of assumption just felt impossible to fight and I finally just

walked off and left her there and the dream went on to something else. I think

if I could have been lucid that I could have said some very cathartic things in

that scenario!

Has anyone else tried combining lucid dreaming and working through issues? Any

tips?

Thanks,