Guest guest Posted March 11, 2010 Report Share Posted March 11, 2010 Thank you, that is some really great information and I can see exactly what you mean. The big thing I noticed about the journaling was when I ate mindfully it was not in front of the TV. I always thought I was focusing on what and how much I was eating, however, that is not the case. I don't really remember the flavour, I do not notice my fullness, I keep going back to the cupboard looking for something usually unknown as I am full by then but feel I've missed out on something and I don't feel good afterward. I have not like the over full feeling for a long time. It makes so much sense now like a very bright light going off; it feels like it's all making sense now. Thank you so much, Jo. > > > > I know there are some that have tried the above workbook and I was just wondering what were your thoughts and how once you gathered this information how you were able to make changes and have success in normal eating as that's all I really want is to eat the way I know I want and can. I have been logging things for a few days and have noticed a couple of important things that I do and times that I do them - eating mindfully is a big one. If I eat in front of the TV I know I don't eat mindfully. Just wondering once I've gathered this information what I'll be able to do with it all. Awareness is one thing; action is another. Even though I'm not quite there yet I'll keep working at normalizing my eating. I saw someone the other day that reminded me of the misery of dieting and I never want to go through that again. I'll have to keep my distance from this person as she seems obsessed. Actually it's not just her it's everywhere. I must say I'm excited about going back to boxing tonight I feel fantastic afterward, however, I have not been able to go since Nov. as I was ill for a few months. > > > > Thanks, > > Jo. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2010 Report Share Posted March 11, 2010 Sue, You said something a little while back that Jo repeated that really, REALLY resonated. It's funny how you can hear things said several times and not really hear them, and then one day you really hear it and you have an " aha " moment. Anyway, you both talk about how if you don't eat consciously (including eating what you really want, or at least, something that pleases you), you won't feel satisfied and will want to keep eating. I think sometimes when I'm really too hungry and so I give myself permission to eat fast (makes sense in my unconscious mind) I do get too full and want to keep eating. And so I think at least part of why I overeat is that then I can't eat consciously and thus don't get the complete pleasure/emotional fulfillment of physical satisfaction. So its not so much a physical lack of satisfaction as a mental one. I don't know if this makes any sense but like I said, a big aha moment for me. Abby Thank you, that is some really great information and I can see exactly what you mean. The big thing I noticed about the journaling was when I ate mindfully it was not in front of the TV. I always thought I was focusing on what and how much I was eating, however, that is not the case. I don't really remember the flavour, I do not notice my fullness, I keep going back to the cupboard looking for something usually unknown as I am full by then but feel I've missed out on something and I don't feel good afterward. I have not like the over full feeling for a long time. It makes so much sense now like a very bright light going off; it feels like it's all making sense now. Thank you so much, Jo.>> Hi Jo: I loved th... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2010 Report Share Posted March 11, 2010 Hi Abby: Makes PERFECT sense to me. Satisfaction is both physical and psychological. I can't have one without the other. SUE > > Sue, > > You said something a little while back that Jo repeated that really, REALLY > resonated. It's funny how you can hear things said several times and not > really hear them, and then one day you really hear it and you have an " aha " > moment. > > Anyway, you both talk about how if you don't eat consciously (including > eating what you really want, or at least, something that pleases you), you > won't feel satisfied and will want to keep eating. > > I think sometimes when I'm really too hungry and so I give myself permission > to eat fast (makes sense in my unconscious mind) I do get too full and want > to keep eating. And so I think at least part of why I overeat is that then I > can't eat consciously and thus don't get the complete pleasure/emotional > fulfillment of physical satisfaction. So its not so much a physical lack of > satisfaction as a mental one. > > I don't know if this makes any sense but like I said, a big aha moment for > me. > > Abby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 11, 2010 Report Share Posted March 11, 2010 Hi Jo: You're welcome. I had that exact same experience when I watched tv while eating lunch. Although I thought I focused on the taste of the food, I still wanted more after I felt physically satisfied. Lesson learned. I need to continue to practice focused eating. I'm also glad I could explain how the Appetite Awareness book can help you. SUE > > Thank you, that is some really great information and I can see exactly what you mean. The big thing I noticed about the journaling was when I ate mindfully it was not in front of the TV. I always thought I was focusing on what and how much I was eating, however, that is not the case. I don't really remember the flavour, I do not notice my fullness, I keep going back to the cupboard looking for something usually unknown as I am full by then but feel I've missed out on something and I don't feel good afterward. I have not like the over full feeling for a long time. It makes so much sense now like a very bright light going off; it feels like it's all making sense now. > > Thank you so much, > Jo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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