Guest guest Posted October 14, 2010 Report Share Posted October 14, 2010 I was thinking about this responding to another post. It took me years to figure out (through a therapist) that I not only experienced physical and emotional abuse from nada, but also a form of sexual abuse - primarily violating boundaries. Examples: Waiting for me to shut my bedroom door to change clothes, then barging in without knocking. She would never come in if the door was open - she purposely waited till it was closed. Asking me to take a picture of her (dressed fortunately) to send to a man she was fantasizing about having an affair with. I was 15. My parents were still married. Routinely walking around naked in front of my teenage brother and I. Making sexual jokes to me from about age 12 on. Using sexual nicknames for my teenage boyfriends. = " Morgasm. " Discussing intimate details of her sex life with me as I was a young teen. Did any of your nadas or fadas engage in this type of boundary violation? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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