Guest guest Posted October 10, 2010 Report Share Posted October 10, 2010 Ladies A separate topic brought to mind by another post. I think KO s are particularly vulnerable to unsafe relationships. Women in particular are vulnerable to controlling and abusive men. Nada groomed you perfectly for them, and they will have a finely honed radar to find you. I d like to help you set up your countermeasures, so you open fire on them before they get close enough. ( pardon the Navy analogies. LOL ) Men who abuse women do not just walk up to you and smack you across the mouth. That comes months or years later, and is of course , your fault. We had a man near me recently kill his wife, step daughter, and a neighbor girl because the wife burned his eggs. They will start out charming and flattering. But you are viewed as a conquest, and a possession to be maneuvered and controlled, not as a treasure to be cherished. I know and counsel with couples and women who have gone thru this sort of drama. If he won t change, she must run to get away. And such men view their women as chattel to be brought back at the point of a gun, or hunted down and punished. If I m scaring you, good. Such men are ought there. Some reading for you Safe People , Cloud Townsend http://www.amazon.com/Why-Does-He-That-Controlling/dp/0425191656/ref=sr_\ 1_1?ie=UTF8 & qid=1286725048 & sr=8-1 http://www.amazon.com/But-Never-Hit-Devastating-Non-Physical/dp/05954113\ 98/ref=pd_sim_b_2 <http://www.amazon.com/But-Never-Hit-Devastating-Non-Physical/dp/0595411\ 398/ref=pd_sim_b_2> http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Vampires-Dealing-People-Drain/dp/0071381\ 678/ref=pd_sim_b_6 <http://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Vampires-Dealing-People-Drain/dp/007138\ 1678/ref=pd_sim_b_6> Don t be a victim again. You were a victim of nada. And you learned patterns of response that make you terribly vulnerable to these sociopathic Vampires. Arm yourself with knowledge and a radar for them. When you find one charming you RUN LIKE HELL. Give him nothing. Do NOT let him down easy, and try to gently say I m not interested. Repeat after me: Get the fuck away from me and if you ever call or come around me again I ll have you arrested, and I will press charges. I will not permit you to be a part of my life , I know what you are. I have a gun and PMS and I m not afraid to use either. Not trying to be a snoop or control freak here, just viewing all you KO women as my extended family, dozens of lil sisters! As a husband, a father of daughters, a brother of sisters, I never want to see any women endure that shit. Defenses up! Doug Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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