Re: Re: Did your BPD parent do this?

[Guest guest]

Oh yeah, talking about what I had done, what my sister had done, what she

thought we had done and bring it up over and over again over the years, that was

some of the worst of all the things she did. A lot of lies, exaggerations and

misunderstanding normal childhood behaviors. This is one of the abuses that

hurts me and affects me the most today. Public humiliation was her favorite. The

cool stuff I'd done? Not cool to her, and if so, certainly not something she'd

admit to me.

Flowers in Oz

-----Original Message-----

>> my father and talk bad about me.

[Guest guest]

If my nada liked something I had done, she just said it was all to her

credit. Graduate grad school with honors, well really it was her degree and

she made it all possible. . . ugh

On Sat, Oct 16, 2010 at 5:44 PM, Flowers

wrote:

>

>

> Oh yeah, talking about what I had done, what my sister had done, what she

> thought we had done and bring it up over and over again over the years, that

> was some of the worst of all the things she did. A lot of lies,

> exaggerations and misunderstanding normal childhood behaviors. This is one

> of the abuses that hurts me and affects me the most today. Public

> humiliation was her favorite. The cool stuff I'd done? Not cool to her, and

> if so, certainly not something she'd admit to me.

>

> Flowers in Oz

>

> -----Original Message-----

> >> my father and talk bad about me.

>

>

[Guest guest]

OMG my mother did this sooo bad. Made cheerleading? It was because she was the

one who spoke to the judges and they " knew who the mother was. " Give me a break.

Got a job? It was because " she called and spoke to them. " She always liked that

she thought she intimidated people.

Re: Re: Did your BPD parent do this?

If my nada liked something I had done, she just said it was all to her

redit. Graduate grad school with honors, well really it was her degree and

he made it all possible. . . ugh

On Sat, Oct 16, 2010 at 5:44 PM, Flowers

pinkandblueflowers@...>wrote:

>

Oh yeah, talking about what I had done, what my sister had done, what she

thought we had done and bring it up over and over again over the years, that

was some of the worst of all the things she did. A lot of lies,

exaggerations and misunderstanding normal childhood behaviors. This is one

of the abuses that hurts me and affects me the most today. Public

humiliation was her favorite. The cool stuff I'd done? Not cool to her, and

if so, certainly not something she'd admit to me.

Flowers in Oz

-----Original Message-----

>> my father and talk bad about me.

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