meeting foster child's BPD mom today

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Hey All-

Today I'll be meeting our foster kid's BPD mom for the first time (assuming she

shows up, of course).

I'm worried about how it will affect , our foster daughter, of course.

But I'm also oddly worried about the MOM. I actually feel sort of guilty today.

's such a great kid, and I feel like I'm stealing her somehow.

I know this isn't rational - she lost her kid long before today, but I still

feel guilty.

Could someone please reassure me that an extremely low-functioning BPD mom

shouldn't get the chance to raise a kid?

Letty