Re: IE is not only about restrictive eating

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Woo! Hi , I am glad there is someone else who has a similar experience to

mine. We all have our own experiences with weight or dieting struggles and our

own challenges to overcome with IE, so I am glad to find someone who can relate

to mine

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> Hi Sara...

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> Thank-you so much for this post... I really relate to it. I've been on WW

twice

> and dabbled in a couple other diets through the years (I am 45 years old), so

> for the most part I am like you and haven't really dieted and just like to eat

> for pleasure and have always overdone it. When I was a kid though, I never

> gained weight because I was really active but in my 20's is when the weight

> started creeping on. I kept my eating habits but my activity went down.

> Anyway, like you, I have learned a lot from IE. I have been practicing for

> about 6 months but don't think I've lost anything, but I don't think I've

gained

> either (I stopped weighing, but my clothes fit the same). The freedom is

> awesome... it is so nice not obsessing about food and my weight all the time.

> Also learning self-acceptance. It hasn't all been easy, but I know things are

> better in many ways.

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> To: IntuitiveEating_Support

> Sent: Sun, December 19, 2010 11:09:00 AM

> Subject: IE is not only about restrictive eating

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> Jen,

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> IE is NOT about learning how not to diet. It's about learning how to listen

to

> your body's natural cues.

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> Now, how we have stopped listening to our body's natural cues is different for

> everyone. For some, that DOES involve shaking off restrictive eating

patterns.

> Others, like me, have rarely if never followed restrictive eating patterns.

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> If anything, I'd say I haven't restricted myself enough! I eat everything,

and

> too much of it.

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> Now, I don't always recognize myself on these boards, which is a little

> frustrating for me. I have never been a binger or purger...I rarely identify

> myself as eating emotionally. While I've read about all the diets, I have

> actually undertaken very few of them. I don't have any restrictive rules to

> get rid of.

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> Yet, I overeat. I did recognize myself when McKenna, in his tv special,

> mentioned people lifting another forkful of food before the bite still in

their

> mouths was done chewing. (that is actually where I first found the concept of

> IE)

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> I recognize myself when I read about not wanting to waste money or food by

> leaving food on the plate, that *compulsion* for a clean plate.

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> I recognize myself when I read about people seeking that next bit of pleasure

> from another (and another and another) bite of food, rather than savoring each

> bite carefully.

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> I recognize myself when I read about people having learned to find comfort in

> that FULL sensation of an overstuffed belly.

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> Although I am not fighting against any restrictive rules, IE has helped me.

It

> has helped me to recognize when I am mostly full, so I don't keep eating until

I

> end up STUFFED. It has helped me make the conscious decision to stop eating,

> to leave food on my plate. It has helped me learn to clarify for myself that

I

> don't really want that cake, that I know it will be dried out and not the

taste

> experience I was hoping for. It has helped me to remember to chew each bite,

to

> slow down, rather than shoveling food mechanically into my mouth repeatedly.

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> I am still overweight, but a combo of IE and exercise helped me take off 30

lbs

> last year. I took it off slowly, over a period of 6 months. Except for a

> fluctuating 5 lbs, I have maintained that weight loss for over a year. I've

> relaxed my attention to IE, however, and I joined this board to help me get my

> focus back in place.

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> I hope this helps explain how IE can help someone who is not a restrictive

> eater.

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> Sara

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