Guest guest Posted October 15, 2010 Report Share Posted October 15, 2010 I'm wondering if I'm nearing my lifetime allotment of what I'll tolerate in terms of waify behavior. Today I talked with my nada and overall it went pretty well. I was on my game, didn't reveal anything I shouldn't, talked about superficial stuff, but she made a couple of plays for sympathy and concern that were clearly manipulative. I saw through them (yay me) and I think I quite frustrated her with my lack of satisfying response. I was supposed to be concerned, offer sympathy, *worry* about her - and I didn't. Yet....as I thought about it later I thought her plays for sympathy weren't crazy or neurotic really. If someone else had said those same things I might not have even skipped a beat. BUT because it was her and because of how I've had to give Give GIVE my whole life I feel cold in response. I don't want my heart to harden. Yet it has been my giving nature she's taken advantage of the most so it is only fair, only right? Not sure if I really have a point here - just sharing. Anyone with a waify nada relate? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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