Guest guest Posted October 4, 2010 Report Share Posted October 4, 2010 Guys, What happens to a nada when their attatchment figures die/get away from them? My nada didn't last long after dad died 7 years almost to the day. Apparently she died of a heart attack. I'm thinking the stress of not being able to hide herself any longer caused a lot fo the stress as well as refusing to take care of herself. What is a good way to explain nada to an aunt who only got reinvolved with her sister after a long time of estrangment. She is goign through nada's paperwork and writingts and finding a lot of things disturbing. more later proflaf Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 4, 2010 Report Share Posted October 4, 2010 Mine sure did, after my parents divorced when I was in my 20's. She wasted NO time in getting herself on the internet dating sites...my " I'm so Catholic that the word sex is evil and if I ever find out you had sex before marriage I'm having you committed to a mental institution " mother was posting all these provocative " look at my breasts! " photos of herself online, advertising as a " financially secure, recent divorcee from (her very upscale suburb) " Of course she got lots of men contacting her...it was kind of funny and kind of sad. One guy swindled her out of six grand...he claimed he needed it to buy a computer to set up his " internet shoe repair " business. He even showed up from several states away and moved into her house for a month. Of course, I had to ask the obvious... " Um, why did he need money for a computer? " Why, so he could get online and start that business! " Um, if he didn't have a computer already, how has he been chatting online with you at all hours of the day and night? " Oh. She ended up marrying one that she thought was just the be all end all...and he'll tell you allllllllll about how brilliant he is. He's the family joke, behind her back because nobody has the courage to tell her how much they cannot stand him. And Mr. Genius has basically swindled her out of hundreds of thousands because he was supposed to get a job...then he was supposed to be this genius stock market predictor...none of it ever panned out, PLUS she's spending about $30K to $40K a year supporting his deadbeat son who is " too smart " to get a job to support himself and his kids. But, she has a husband, and to her that's the measure of worth. Ninera > > > > > > > Guys, > > What happens to a nada when their attatchment figures > die/get away from > > them? My nada didn't last long after dad died 7 > years almost to the day. > > Apparently she died of a heart attack. I'm > thinking the stress of not being > > able to hide herself any longer caused a lot fo the > stress as well as > > refusing to take care of herself. > > > > What is a good way to explain nada to an aunt who only > got reinvolved with > > her sister after a long time of estrangment. She > is goign through nada's > > paperwork and writingts and finding a lot of things > disturbing. > > > > more later > > proflaf > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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