Re: A question for women who had children... pain with childbirth

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My life is sooo traumatic I don't know WHICH one caused the FM.

My first husband sent me to a women's refuse and convent,

My second husband tried to kill me, then killed himself and my baby son.

I too almost died with the birth of my second and third children.

Both are autistic, one is home schooled, my divorce 5 years ago was

horrific during which I was held hostage by my divorce lawyer.

I started having syptoms after a saw him again after a 2 year absence.

Do I think he caused it NO, do I think my body was ready for this

OHHHHHH YYYYEESSS, I think everyone expresses " symptoms "

in their own way, I think there are drunks, drug addicts and then the mentally

ill and then I think there is US. If " depression " is " anger turned inward "

then we are the people who have learnt to channel their

feelings inward and " pain " is an expression of the things we can't

get rid of so we just " toxic build " those feelings until they literally

hurt our system, now if anyone can build us a pain dialysis we are

onto a winner. I firmly beleive that within the next 5 years FM will be

diagnosed as a " toxic " build up of something in our system.

Bonnie

A question for women who had children... pain with childbirth

I just have had a question in my mind for some time. I thought I might ask just

as a little poll here for me.

Childbirth for me was the most excruciating horrible brink of death pain I

ever had.. I have heard so many other women that have said " it was not that

bad " ..... or " it was like a backache " .... etc....

My question is, do you think that because of the FM the pain was much worse

for me? Of course, at the time my children were born I did not know yet that I

had FM.

Thanks,

Debra V.

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In a message dated 1/2/2008 9:43:10 A.M. Pacific Standard Time,

ladybug75901@... writes:

Childbirth for me was the most excruciating horrible brink of death pain

With my first and third child that was how I felt. I hadn't come close to

feeling like that again, until that weekend that you talked to me. I felt

like if my soul could just leave my body and enter a new body, I would be in

7th

heaven. The pain was just that bad. I don't know how much fibro can

interfere with labor pain. I have heard some women say that while they were

pregnant the fibro seemed to be dormant.

Anyway, now I have to think of the pain scale in a different way, because

otherwise I would always be between an 8 & 10, so now I am between a 6 & 8,

since the pain is always greater and I have to have room for if it goes even

higher and unfortunately, I know it will.

Love and gentle hugs,

Debi/So. Cal.-54

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