OT Hello From Grits Need All Your Prayers

[Guest guest]

I know its been a long time since I've been on the group but I have

been under such emotional stress and therefore extreme pain from the

ending of my 20yr marriage. (Not my choice). Tomorrow is my day at

Divorce Court and I need all your prayers going out for me so I will

have the strength to make it through this. I'm not getting anything but

the house. I did not ask for alimony even though I deserve it.

Emotionally I did not think that I could handle being attached to this

emotionally abussive man any longer by whatever means. I will start

over and I wiil make it on my own. Plenty of you have done it and I can

too. I have a loving family to support me. Maybe after tommorrow they

will stop hounding me about what I should have done. I did what I felt

was best for me mentally and physically.

Thank you for your friendship and prayers and it may take me a little

longer to heal before I can get back to group.

Love to all,

Grits/Vicki

P.S.

You can e-mail be directly at gritsgrill@...

[Guest guest]

Oh Grits honey,

That's great you are finally divorcing that man. My dad was very

physically and emotionally abusive to my brother and I. So do know what

you are going through. Also divorced my drank husband in 1988. Will be

happy to keep you in my prayers also.

soft hugs,

Debbie J

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> I know its been a long time since I've been on the group but I have

> been under such emotional stress and therefore extreme pain from the

> ending of my 20yr marriage. (Not my choice). Tomorrow is my day at

> Divorce Court and I need all your prayers going out for me so I will

> have the strength to make it through this.

[Guest guest]

Believe it or not the weight of the world will lift off your shoulders once this

day is over, good, bad or indifferent you will have a plan of what your future

looks like and what you need to change to accomodate it. Trust me the doing is

far easier than the waiting.

Re: OT Hello From Grits Need All Your Prayers

>

> I know its been a long time since I've been on the group but I have

> been under such emotional stress and therefore extreme pain from the

> ending of my 20yr marriage. (Not my choice). Tomorrow is my day at

> Divorce Court and I need all your prayers going out for me so I will

> have the strength to make it through this. I'm not getting anything but

> the house. I did not ask for alimony even though I deserve it.

> Emotionally I did not think that I could handle being attached to this

> emotionally abussive man any longer by whatever means. I will start

> over and I wiil make it on my own. Plenty of you have done it and I can

> too. I have a loving family to support me. Maybe after tommorrow they

> will stop hounding me about what I should have done. I did what I felt

> was best for me mentally and physically.

> Thank you for your friendship and prayers and it may take me a little

> longer to heal before I can get back to group.

> Love to all,

> Grits/Vicki

> P.S.

> You can e-mail be directly at gritsgrill@...

>

My prayers are with Grits. Hugs, Leanne

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