Re: Re: Relationships

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My marriage fell apart shortly after we found out of my fm,but being a man he

blamed it on other things,and he was very open about the woman he met online,she

was from Ukrainane,but sweet justice she truned out to be one of them scammers.

But there have many others..But funny thing he seems to always help me when I

need help.,and because of my disabilties,and I can no longer work,and I had to

apply for my SSi,I haven t been able to afford a place to live,and pay for my

meds,drs. I am living on the truck with him.I am still waiting on my SSI,but so

far he has been so helpful.I also have decided to move to Warren,PA. I am making

that my Home. But sometimes,it is good to find out how our husbands/wives

feel,so we will know what we need to do for ourselves.

Jerilyn wrote: I am married and have been

having problems with my husband since i

have been feeling better actually. i almost feel like he was more

content w me lying around the house. now that i feel good and i want

to go out, it seems to be a problem. i am not sure if its due to my

FM persay but i left and we are now seperated temporarily. we have

different views on things. i like to have a social life especially

now that i am home all day with my son and i like to see my friends

when i have a chance. Maybe once or twice a month. And my husband is

VERY angry all the time and i dont know why cuz he wont talk about

it. he is honestly very moody and can go from 1 extreme to another

without anything happening in between. i wonder sometimes if he's

bipolar. not that he get violent or screamns. there is just alot of

tension everyday. so i though we needed a break from one another.

anyway, i know this is not a realtionship group and i am sorry to

vent like this.

take care

jerilyn

>

> I just read an email about relationships and fm. This is my own

> personal story. My fiance's ex wife has fm. He wasn't supportive

of

> her (not just beecause of the fm) so she never told him when she

> hurt. I, on the other hand, talk to mu fiance about my pain. Yes,

> there are days he thinks I'm whining, but he knows that sometimes

it

> helps just to talk about the pain. He suffers from migraines so he

> knows about pain. He has been ultra supportive since finding out I

> have fm. His ex wife and I are friends (now, we weren't for the

> first 1 1/5 years of his and my relationship). We both support

each

> other now because we both know the pain of fm. She's great to talk

> to and she's a nurse so she also gives me advice (heating pads, hot

> baths, etc.)

>

> I am a firm believer that if something has an affect on every day

of

> your life, you need to tell people that will be in your life every

> day. I'm not saying tell someone on the first date, I'm saying

when

> you think there is a chance of something being long term, discuss

it

> with them.

>

> Just my 2 cents!

>

>

>

Mrs. Cheryl A. Deacon

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