Guest guest Posted October 9, 2010 Report Share Posted October 9, 2010 Yeah, I think she's wanting more of your emotional support and friendship, which can become very compromising in a business relationship. Sheesh. That can be very dicey to handle. If you prefer not to talk to her directly about wanting to separate your work relationship from your private life (because you think that she will feel rejected and her hurt feelings will taint your business relationship) then, you can try always telling her when you're leaving for the weekend or a long weekend that you and Boyfriend are going out of town again (even if you're not.) If you're not physically there, she can't drop in on you. But that will only work if you can seem to be not at home when you really are; it will probably tick her off if she discovers that you fibbed about going away but you're really at home. Argh. -Annie > > Okay guys, so this is weird. . . > > Its a holiday weekend. And I was SO excited to get a break from my boss. > She's been really needy and really controlling lately. > > We love each other and have a good time working together. But she's also > going through something. . . > > So she came by my house last night to bring me some tomatoes from her > garden. Which is fine - though I needed a break more than I needed a > tomatoe. > > And guess what, she just stopped by again with ANOTHER tomatoe. > > On Saturday morning. On a holilday weekend - and I'm sitting here in my > jammies ha ha ha > > Any diagnoses? Boyfriend and I are thinking that I'm a big source of support > for her, and so she wanted a little love. > > Ha ha ha > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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