Re: My wife was just diagnosed, and we are moving. Any advice is most w...

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In a message dated 12/29/2007 2:20:17 P.M. Pacific Standard Time,

chazwilding@... writes:

For now, any advice or suggestions about how Barbara can manage this awful

stress, which is exacerbating the pain, and/or any tips about pain

When we lost my grandson, it hit me hard, because I was the last one to see

him alive and I felt guilty that I had missed something that maybe I should

have noticed and he might have lived. Anyway, they called it SIDS that killed

him at 6 days old and I was put on a stronger dose of xanax and vicodin. It

helped me to get through the roughest days, so much so that they are a blur

and I slept a lot.

My prayers are with you and your wife. We will be moving ourselves on the

14th, so I am bracing up for it. We will have the military movers packing for

us and moving us, but the move will still be a stress anyway and this will

be our 3rd move since July. And then we will have one more move from

temporary housing into base housing.

Love and gentle hugs,

Debi/So. Cal.-54

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Map it out, so from this day to move day, write on a schedule so that nothing is

left to the last minute and nothing is lumped into one day. Spread out so that

there are periods of time where rest is the MOST important thing on the shedule.

For me I used to clean the house one day per week, now I have worked out that if

I clean one room everyday it is more manageable, the work still gets done and

house never looks brilliant or terrible and I know that on bad days a tidy

bathroom is all I can muster and on an energy day I attack the kids bedrooms.

But I know that with 7 rooms one day per week is allocated to one room, When

packing up do the same, today my energy level is 3 I'm attacking the kitchen

etc.

Re: My wife was just diagnosed, and we are moving. Any advice is

most w...

In a message dated 12/29/2007 2:20:17 P.M. Pacific Standard Time,

chazwilding@... writes:

For now, any advice or suggestions about how Barbara can manage this awful

stress, which is exacerbating the pain, and/or any tips about pain

When we lost my grandson, it hit me hard, because I was the last one to see

him alive and I felt guilty that I had missed something that maybe I should

have noticed and he might have lived. Anyway, they called it SIDS that killed

him at 6 days old and I was put on a stronger dose of xanax and vicodin. It

helped me to get through the roughest days, so much so that they are a blur

and I slept a lot.

My prayers are with you and your wife. We will be moving ourselves on the

14th, so I am bracing up for it. We will have the military movers packing for

us and moving us, but the move will still be a stress anyway and this will

be our 3rd move since July. And then we will have one more move from

temporary housing into base housing.

Love and gentle hugs,

Debi/So. Cal.-54

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