Re: - Men underfoot-sorry venting-Update-Debi

January 2, 2008

Debi, My dd Jenifer and her husband are like your dd tiffany and her hubby. I

know they would take me in at anytime I needed it. We are very close and last

night she told me to pack some things and come live with them. They are truly a

blessing to me but I told them that I couldnt live with myself if I left M to

recover alone. He may be acting like a jerk but I have compassion enough to

stick it out until then. Thanks, Theresa

DebiAC012553@... wrote: Theresa, my last husband treated me

similarly. He started out acing like he

understood about the fibro and all of its ups and downs and ins and outs of

other problems. Also after all that my daughter had gone through with her

dad's death and then being sexually molested and raped by the man that my late

husband put us in the care of, she came first to me. This also, I thought

that my new husband understood, otherwise I never would have married him. But

within the first year of our marriage, he went from this totally devoted and

understanding guy before we got married, to super jerk after our marriage.

Needless to say that marriage ended in divorce and I haven't cared about men

in that way ever since.

I live with my daughter, , her husband and their children and I am

happy and content with that. This family shares unconditional love and my

daughter and her husband have been together and I have been living with them for

10 years. I couldn't have asked for a better situation. I love my sil like

a son, my daughter and I are best friends and loving and respectful

mother/daughter. The kids give me reason to get up each day, no matter how I

might be

feeling they keep me going. They are so used to having 3 parents, that they

can't imagine their lives any other way.

Theresa, my heart goes out to you and I pray that your situation can change

soon to the better. Unfortunately, all to often, the ones that we think are

supposed to understand us the best, just don't...and it hurts.

Love and gentle hugs,

Debi/So. Cal.-54

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