- Men underfoot-sorry venting-Update

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Yesterday was awful! " M " gets mad if I am on the computer. He gets mad if I

watch " stupid " Lifetime movies. So I decided to spend my day, my last one on

vacation, reading a book. He kept walking through the living room where I was

reading, then after about 4 times doing this, he said " Is that all you're going

to do today? I slammed the book down and went to my daughters' home. I was gone

for 6 hours. I went home last night around 7:00 and he called me a bitch. Then

he told he me doesnt get any attention from me. I have been home my entire

vacation,11 days. He likes to sit in the bedroom watching tv and I refuse to

live in the bedroom. He wont spend any time in the living room where, I had

thought was why they call it a living room. I thought it was where people live.

LOL Silly me! Anyway we got talking or " yelling " and I told him I wanted to move

and he wanted to know why. I said that my 16 yr old dd wont even live with me

because she doesnt like being so far from her

friends. She is staying with my other dd in town most of the time. I told him

that she is my responsibility and I want to be her mom but its hard to when she

isnt here with me. He blew up and said it was her way of manipulating me and she

justs wants her own way. I told him she comes first until she is an adult. He

said hes tired of being last in my life. I cant wait until he is recovered from

his surgery so I can move. He will be recovered enough around the time my tax

refund is here so that should work out fine. I just hope I can make it that

long. One question.. am I wrong to put my daughter first? He sure makes it seem

like I am a hateful person for doing just that. Theresa in Tn

Happy moments, praise God.

Difficult moments, seek God.

Quiet moments, worship God.

Painful moments, trust God.

Every moment, thank God

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