Re: Gonna vent......Thanks Jeanne

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Wow. what a winter mess. That is the worst thing about snow. It is beautiful

until it starts melting.

I know what you mean. The weather here has warmed up to near 80 degrees the

last couple of days. I just wish it would stay one way for a while.

I agree that the warmer weather kicks the germs and allergies in big time. Of

course, we have so many pine trees around here too.... I don't think that helps

my allergies either.

I am a little better with the depression thing. Just dreading the rest of

this week and next week.

Thanks,

love and hugs,

Debra V.

Dave and Jeanne wrote:

Hi Debra. I was more down than usual yesterday today, and very tired

as

well. I'm blaming mine on the weather. We are having a winter thaw, so

very foggy, then cloudy, absolutely NO sun, and the warmer weather seems to

kick in all the germs and sinus problems to boot. This morning, I seem a

bit better in spite of the weather. We live on a culdesac, and the whole

thing is flooded right now as we've had some thunderstorms roll through.

There is a big mountain of dirty snow in the middle, because that's where

the plows put the snow, and it's surrounded now by water. I'm thinking the

drainage things might be blocked by unmelted snow or something. It's just

wierd.

Try not to stress ahead of time about Friday. Remember, one day at a

time. Hope your spirits are a bit better today.

Jeanne in WI

>I have just been kind of depressed today. I know I forgot to take my

>zoloft yesterday, so that might have something to do with it. I am just so

>out of sorts. I hate this disease and the fact it makes me so tired I just

>don't feel I am able to keep up with anything....parenting skills or

>otherwise. I am already stressing about the surgery my husband has coming

>on Friday. I do believe he will be ok, I just hate the stress. And trying

>to care for the kids by myself for several days will be a challenge. (what

>a great mom that sounds like).... Of course that is in addition to working

>too.

> Well, it will work out somehow. I might take an extra zoloft tonight.

> It won't hurt. I have done that once in a while... I took my morning

> dose today.

>

> Thanks for listening,

> Debra V.

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Hi Debra,

Try not to stress ahead of time it will just make you feel worse

trust me. I have four daughters and in July my husband had his first

stroke, it scared me to death what was going to happen next and I

worried myself sick. In Aug. he had his second and third stroke and

we almost lost him on the third stroke, believe me every thought of

being a single parent at 42, not working and in the pain that I am in

scared the life out of me. Thank god my husband made it, he is now

disabled but, he is alive. Everyday when I get up I am in alot of

pain but, I have to get the three older girls up and off to school

(they take a bus) and then get the youngest up and get her ready and

walk her to school (our car is broke down right now)by the time I get

home I am in tears because my hips, shoulder and lower back are

totally in flamed but, then I have to get my husband up check his

sugar make sure he takes his meds. and then I die for awhile meaning

either toss and turnon the couch or in the computer chair or try and

lay down but that usually doesn't work do to the rls and the insomnia

on top of the fibro pains.

So keep you head up try not to stress ahead of time and my prayers go

out for your husband.

((((HUGS)))))

Tina

> Hi Debra. I was more down than usual yesterday today, and

very tired as

> well. I'm blaming mine on the weather. We are having a winter thaw,

so

> very foggy, then cloudy, absolutely NO sun, and the warmer weather

seems to

> kick in all the germs and sinus problems to boot. This morning, I

seem a

> bit better in spite of the weather. We live on a culdesac, and the

whole

> thing is flooded right now as we've had some thunderstorms roll

through.

> There is a big mountain of dirty snow in the middle, because that's

where

> the plows put the snow, and it's surrounded now by water. I'm

thinking the

> drainage things might be blocked by unmelted snow or something.

It's just

> wierd.

> Try not to stress ahead of time about Friday. Remember, one day at

a

> time. Hope your spirits are a bit better today.

> Jeanne in WI

>

> >I have just been kind of depressed today. I know I forgot to take

my

> >zoloft yesterday, so that might have something to do with it. I am

just so

> >out of sorts. I hate this disease and the fact it makes me so

tired I just

> >don't feel I am able to keep up with anything....parenting skills

or

> >otherwise. I am already stressing about the surgery my husband has

coming

> >on Friday. I do believe he will be ok, I just hate the stress. And

trying

> >to care for the kids by myself for several days will be a

challenge. (what

> >a great mom that sounds like).... Of course that is in addition to

working

> >too.

> > Well, it will work out somehow. I might take an extra zoloft

tonight.

> > It won't hurt. I have done that once in a while... I took my

morning

> > dose today.

> >

> > Thanks for listening,

> > Debra V.

>

>

>

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Tina,

I can identify with a lot of this as my husband had his first stroke

and it killed him. (in 3 1/2 weeks) Fortunately my children were

all grown and our youngest was in her third year of medical school.

Don't know what I would have done if I had been left with dependent

children. I will keep my fingers crossed that your husband pulls out

of this and has NO more problems. I was 62 and not working when all

this happened but I didn't have fibro then. (1989) Sounds as if

your husband has diabetes also.

Margaret B

> Hi Debra,

>

> Try not to stress ahead of time it will just make you feel worse

> trust me. I have four daughters and in July my husband had his first

> stroke, it scared me to death what was going to happen next and I

> worried myself sick. In Aug. he had his second and third stroke and

> we almost lost him on the third stroke, believe me every thought of

> being a single parent at 42, not working and in the pain that I am in

> scared the life out of me. Thank god my husband made it, he is now

> disabled but, he is alive. Everyday when I get up I am in alot of

> pain but, I have to get the three older girls up and off to school

> (they take a bus) and then get the youngest up and get her ready and

> walk her to school (our car is broke down right now)by the time I get

> home I am in tears because my hips, shoulder and lower back are

> totally in flamed but, then I have to get my husband up check his

> sugar make sure he takes his meds. and then I die for awhile meaning

> either toss and turnon the couch or in the computer chair or try and

> lay down but that usually doesn't work do to the rls and the insomnia

> on top of the fibro pains.

> So keep you head up try not to stress ahead of time and my prayers go

> out for your husband.

>

> ((((HUGS)))))

> Tina

>

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>

> > Hi Debra,

> >

> > Try not to stress ahead of time it will just make you feel worse

> > trust me. I have four daughters and in July my husband had his

first

> > stroke, it scared me to death what was going to happen next and I

> > worried myself sick. In Aug. he had his second and third stroke

and

> > we almost lost him on the third stroke, believe me every thought

of

> > being a single parent at 42, not working and in the pain that I

am in

> > scared the life out of me. Thank god my husband made it, he is now

> > disabled but, he is alive. Everyday when I get up I am in alot of

> > pain but, I have to get the three older girls up and off to school

> > (they take a bus) and then get the youngest up and get her ready

and

> > walk her to school (our car is broke down right now)by the time I

get

> > home I am in tears because my hips, shoulder and lower back are

> > totally in flamed but, then I have to get my husband up check his

> > sugar make sure he takes his meds. and then I die for awhile

meaning

> > either toss and turnon the couch or in the computer chair or try

and

> > lay down but that usually doesn't work do to the rls and the

insomnia

> > on top of the fibro pains.

> > So keep you head up try not to stress ahead of time and my

prayers go

> > out for your husband.

> >

> > ((((HUGS)))))

> > Tina

> >

> >>>

>