Re: - Men underfoot-sorry venting-Update

January 2, 2008

Way to rant, ! I agree 1000% and I don't even have kids!

Ruthie

January 2, 2008

Dear Theresa,

In my opinion, you should definitely put your daughter first. He should

understand this. She is your child and is a minor. It is your responsibility

to take care of her and she needs a mother. I think you need to do whatever it

takes to be with her.

I'm sorry this situation is so hard on you. It is not a good one.

I support what you are planning to do completely.

Take care of yourself,

Marti

Theresa T wrote:

Yesterday was awful! " M " gets mad if I am on the computer. He gets mad

if I watch " stupid " Lifetime movies. So I decided to spend my day, my last one

on vacation, reading a book. He kept walking through the living room where I was

reading, then after about 4 times doing this, he said " Is that all you're going

to do today? I slammed the book down and went to my daughters' home. I was gone

for 6 hours. I went home last night around 7:00 and he called me a bitch. Then

he told he me doesnt get any attention from me. I have been home my entire

vacation,11 days. He likes to sit in the bedroom watching tv and I refuse to

live in the bedroom. He wont spend any time in the living room where, I had

thought was why they call it a living room. I thought it was where people live.

LOL Silly me! Anyway we got talking or " yelling " and I told him I wanted to move

and he wanted to know why. I said that my 16 yr old dd wont even live with me

because she doesnt like being so far from

her

friends. She is staying with my other dd in town most of the time. I told him

that she is my responsibility and I want to be her mom but its hard to when she

isnt here with me. He blew up and said it was her way of manipulating me and she

justs wants her own way. I told him she comes first until she is an adult. He

said hes tired of being last in my life. I cant wait until he is recovered from

his surgery so I can move. He will be recovered enough around the time my tax

refund is here so that should work out fine. I just hope I can make it that

long. One question.. am I wrong to put my daughter first? He sure makes it seem

like I am a hateful person for doing just that. Theresa in Tn

Happy moments, praise God.

Difficult moments, seek God.

Quiet moments, worship God.

Painful moments, trust God.

Every moment, thank God

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January 3, 2008

OMG not another Tim, lol. I have one of those, but he ain't worth it, lol. My

child comes first.

LadyMoonkist wrote: I agree.... Children are

just that, children....and grownups, well they can

fend for themselves. A child can only help themselves so much...

Great for you!!!

K.

-- Re: - Men underfoot-sorry venting-Update

Ha ! I have an answer for TIM " learn to swim " .

It's true my husband wanted me to put my kids in care, I refused and he left

my answer in court because he sued me, (well in foster care you don't have

to

pay child support), I testified on the " chose " question. My answer :- he's a

grown up he can take care of himself, my kids have me and no one else.

As the president wrote THE BUCK STOPS HERE.

Bonnie

PS the judge gave me an 83/17% win (she was a women)

- Men underfoot-sorry venting-Update

Yesterday was awful! " M " gets mad if I am on the computer. He gets mad if I

watch " stupid " Lifetime movies. So I decided to spend my day, my last one on

vacation, reading a book. He kept walking through the living room where I

was reading, then after about 4 times doing this, he said " Is that all you

re going to do today? I slammed the book down and went to my daughters' home

I was gone for 6 hours. I went home last night around 7:00 and he called me

a bitch. Then he told he me doesnt get any attention from me. I have been

home my entire vacation,11 days. He likes to sit in the bedroom watching tv

and I refuse to live in the bedroom. He wont spend any time in the living

room where, I had thought was why they call it a living room. I thought it

was where people live. LOL Silly me! Anyway we got talking or " yelling " and

I told him I wanted to move and he wanted to know why. I said that my 16 yr

old dd wont even live with me because she doesnt like being so far from her

friends. She is staying with my other dd in town most of the time. I told

him that she is my responsibility and I want to be her mom but its hard to

when she isnt here with me. He blew up and said it was her way of

manipulating me and she justs wants her own way. I told him she comes first

until she is an adult. He said hes tired of being last in my life. I cant

wait until he is recovered from his surgery so I can move. He will be

recovered enough around the time my tax refund is here so that should work

out fine. I just hope I can make it that long.. One question.. am I wrong to

put my daughter first? He sure makes it seem like I am a hateful person for

doing just that. Theresa in Tn