RE: I got my pick-up!!!resisteration,insurance and Handicable tags! now I'm w/out a penny...

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johnghoneycutt@...: Tue, 15 Jan 2008 07:18:28 -0500Subject: I

got my pick-up!!!resisteration,insurance and Handicable tags! now I'm w/out a

penny...

It's nice to have ny own trnasportation for a change but the cost of fuel will

limit my coming and going.I will be making an appointment with a Fibr specialist

in a nearby city and hopefully I'll get something for the pain that Lyrica

doesn't rid me of.I haven't been very outgoing lately,I've had alot on my mind

and simply haven't been abe to concentrate on much of anything. Everything I

hope to accomplish is dismissed by the control unit (mom).It's hard to stay

possitive w/such pessimism. I mention going to another city to see a Dr. and in

return I'm hit in the face w/well what about gas and who's going to pay for it

meanwhile I pay rent and my older brother continues to live rent free for 15

yrs. now and get's almost whatever he wants out of the control unit. Having my

own transportation is nice but alittle encouragement from mom would be

priceless. Sorry to whine and rant but this is what's going on here w/me!GOD

Bless ! ! ! . . . .................................... . . . the MAN

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Big hugs to you my friend. I cannot understand your Mom. As a mom, you would

think she would want the best care for you. I know I would if it was my dd. I

Hope and pray for the best always.

Blessings

john honeycutt wrote:

To: fibromyalgia_support_group@...:

johnghoneycutt@...: Tue, 15 Jan 2008 07:18:28 -0500Subject: I

got my pick-up!!!resisteration,insurance and Handicable tags! now I'm w/out a

penny...

It's nice to have ny own trnasportation for a change but the cost of fuel will

limit my coming and going.I will be making an appointment with a Fibr specialist

in a nearby city and hopefully I'll get something for the pain that Lyrica

doesn't rid me of.I haven't been very outgoing lately,I've had alot on my mind

and simply haven't been abe to concentrate on much of anything. Everything I

hope to accomplish is dismissed by the control unit (mom).It's hard to stay

possitive w/such pessimism. I mention going to another city to see a Dr. and in

return I'm hit in the face w/well what about gas and who's going to pay for it

meanwhile I pay rent and my older brother continues to live rent free for 15

yrs. now and get's almost whatever he wants out of the control unit. Having my

own transportation is nice but alittle encouragement from mom would be

priceless. Sorry to whine and rant but this is what's going on here w/me!GOD

Bless ! ! ! . . . .................................... . .

. the MAN

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Congrats on at least owning the pick-up. Gas is expensive, but hopefully

you can work it into you budget somehow. I know how badly you need to find

the right doctor for you.

Jeanne in WI

> To: fibromyalgia_support_group@...:

> johnghoneycutt@...: Tue, 15 Jan 2008 07:18:28 -0500Subject:

> I got my pick-up!!!resisteration,insurance and Handicable tags! now

> I'm w/out a penny...

>

>

>

> It's nice to have ny own trnasportation for a change but the cost of fuel

> will limit my coming and going.I will be making an appointment with a Fibr

> specialist in a nearby city and hopefully I'll get something for the pain

> that Lyrica doesn't rid me of.I haven't been very outgoing lately,I've had

> alot on my mind and simply haven't been abe to concentrate on much of

> anything. Everything I hope to accomplish is dismissed by the control unit

> (mom).It's hard to stay possitive w/such pessimism. I mention going to

> another city to see a Dr. and in return I'm hit in the face w/well what

> about gas and who's going to pay for it meanwhile I pay rent and my older

> brother continues to live rent free for 15 yrs. now and get's almost

> whatever he wants out of the control unit. Having my own transportation is

> nice but alittle encouragement from mom would be priceless. Sorry to whine

> and rant but this is what's going on here w/me!GOD Bless ! ! ! . . .

> .................................... . . . the MAN

> w/wheels______________________________

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, I am so sorry for all the discouragement in your life. It seems your mom

is always the one that controls everything around her. Some people are like

that. I am not saying she is a bad person. However, I know what it is like to

be around controlling people.

Try not to be too discouraged.

I think you just feel trapped. That can be a frustrating feeling. You have a

real illness like the rest of us and it really makes it hard to be more

independent too.

My heart is with you ,

hugs,

Debra V.

john honeycutt wrote:

To: fibromyalgia_support_group@...:

johnghoneycutt@...: Tue, 15 Jan 2008 07:18:28 -0500Subject: I

got my pick-up!!!resisteration,insurance and Handicable tags! now I'm w/out a

penny...

It's nice to have ny own trnasportation for a change but the cost of fuel will

limit my coming and going.I will be making an appointment with a Fibr specialist

in a nearby city and hopefully I'll get something for the pain that Lyrica

doesn't rid me of.I haven't been very outgoing lately,I've had alot on my mind

and simply haven't been abe to concentrate on much of anything. Everything I

hope to accomplish is dismissed by the control unit (mom).It's hard to stay

possitive w/such pessimism. I mention going to another city to see a Dr. and in

return I'm hit in the face w/well what about gas and who's going to pay for it

meanwhile I pay rent and my older brother continues to live rent free for 15

yrs. now and get's almost whatever he wants out of the control unit. Having my

own transportation is nice but alittle encouragement from mom would be

priceless. Sorry to whine and rant but this is what's going on here w/me!GOD

Bless ! ! ! . . . .................................... . .

. the MAN

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,

I know this sounds harsh, but as negative as your mother sounds, have

you ever considered just not including her in your life and/or

decisions. Just completely block her out of the decisions you make

regarding your life and if she says something about it just tell her

you are an adult and don't need " Mother's " approval to do whatever you

want to do??? I know, sounds harsh but might keep you from heartbreak

about the relationship/situation concerning her attitude.

I know I had to do this with my mother VERY early in my adult life. I

was married at 19 and from the beginning and since then I have NEVER

done anything right in her eyes. She was always trying to tell me how

I needed to change something and do it her way, i.e. the " right " way.

At 20 I finally had to tell her that I was an adult and whatever way I

wanted to do things in my life that was how they were going to be

done. It was hard but I knew at that point (when I had my first child)

that if I did not try and stop it then it would only get worse.

Good luck on finding a solution from someone who has been in the same

situation.

lisa n.