Re: Emotional & venting

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from what you said about your toe and stuff it sure sounds like it could be

broke at the tip of the bone how i know my b/f the other week had one of thoughs

big calendars fall on his pinkie toe and broke the tip of the bone his bruised

like your did

Emotional & venting

I have no idea what is wrong with me. I'm an emotional wreck. I'm

crying for absolutely no reason. My pain is not that bad today.

My fiance got upset the other night for me getting on to his kids. All

I did was tell them to stop arguing and they did. He says I'm being

too bossy. If I'm going to soon be their step mother, am I not allowed

to intervene? Especially when he can tune them out but I can't?

I'm not on ANY meds right now because I've been too lazy to get my

amitryptilene filled (I haven't even started it). So I know it's not

the meds. I had a hysterectomy over 3 years ago so no periods (I know

I can still have PMS without the periods) but I've never been like this.

Maybe stress? I'm stressed about getting my wedding plans done and

stressed about trying to buy a house with lousy credit.

When I fell the other night I was convinced I broke my toe so my doc

had me get an x-ray yesterday. The medical assistant called me back

today and said " no broken bones and no dislocations " . My entire foot

hurts and is swollen and my toe is SOOOO bruised. Bad sprain maybe?

Well, I'll stop whining for now. I'll watch some TV and see if I can

stay away from the Kleenex.

in NM

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Jaimie,

I think you were right to tell the kids to stop arguing. You probably need to

stand up to your fiance. You better get these things straightened out soon

rather than later. Otherwise you will have a lot of disagreements when you are

married over the kids. If they are in your house you have every right to speak

up when they are acting up. He should support you, always, in front of the

kids. Behind the scenes you can discuss it. Otherwise those kids are going to

walk all over you.

One thing my ex and I always agreed to do was show a united front with the kids.

We NEVER vetoed each other. Never allowed the kids to ask one parent and get a

no, then ask the other one to get a yes. " What did your father say? " Even now

on big issues we talk and decide what we are going to do most of the time.

That's about all we ever talk about. LOL.

It sounds like the stress may be getting to you. You need a warm bubble bath

with no interruptions.

Angie Harley Mama Double-D

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Emotional & venting

I have no idea what is wrong with me. I'm an emotional wreck. I'm

crying for absolutely no reason. My pain is not that bad today.

My fiance got upset the other night for me getting on to his kids. All

I did was tell them to stop arguing and they did. He says I'm being

too bossy. If I'm going to soon be their step mother, am I not allowed

to intervene? Especially when he can tune them out but I can't?

I'm not on ANY meds right now because I've been too lazy to get my

amitryptilene filled (I haven't even started it). So I know it's not

the meds. I had a hysterectomy over 3 years ago so no periods (I know

I can still have PMS without the periods) but I've never been like this.

Maybe stress? I'm stressed about getting my wedding plans done and

stressed about trying to buy a house with lousy credit.

When I fell the other night I was convinced I broke my toe so my doc

had me get an x-ray yesterday. The medical assistant called me back

today and said " no broken bones and no dislocations " . My entire foot

hurts and is swollen and my toe is SOOOO bruised. Bad sprain maybe?

Well, I'll stop whining for now. I'll watch some TV and see if I can

stay away from the Kleenex.

in NM

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do you have any firstaid tape you can tape your bruised toe to the next one

beside it

Emotional & venting

I have no idea what is wrong with me. I'm an emotional wreck. I'm

crying for absolutely no reason. My pain is not that bad today.

My fiance got upset the other night for me getting on to his kids. All

I did was tell them to stop arguing and they did. He says I'm being

too bossy. If I'm going to soon be their step mother, am I not allowed

to intervene? Especially when he can tune them out but I can't?

I'm not on ANY meds right now because I've been too lazy to get my

amitryptilene filled (I haven't even started it). So I know it's not

the meds. I had a hysterectomy over 3 years ago so no periods (I know

I can still have PMS without the periods) but I've never been like this.

Maybe stress? I'm stressed about getting my wedding plans done and

stressed about trying to buy a house with lousy credit.

When I fell the other night I was convinced I broke my toe so my doc

had me get an x-ray yesterday. The medical assistant called me back

today and said " no broken bones and no dislocations " . My entire foot

hurts and is swollen and my toe is SOOOO bruised. Bad sprain maybe?

Well, I'll stop whining for now. I'll watch some TV and see if I can

stay away from the Kleenex.

in NM

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Thanks. This is the first time he's ever said anything to me. Their

mother has even given me permission to scold them when needed. For

the most part they are fine. But occassionally get too rowdy or

loud. My fiance has been sick so I don't know if that's what his

problem was or not. He has been fine today and is feeling much

better.

I wish I could fill my hot tub up with bubbles! LOL My tub is so

skinny, it must have been made for someone about 4'2 " tall and about

75 pounds! I'm going to get in the tub in a bit then wrap my toe.

Maybe that will help!

My ex and I are the same way with our 3 kids. It helps a lot!

Thanks again!

>

> Jaimie,

> I think you were right to tell the kids to stop arguing. You

probably need to stand up to your fiance. You better get these

things straightened out soon rather than later. Otherwise you will

have a lot of disagreements when you are married over the kids. If

they are in your house you have every right to speak up when they are

acting up. He should support you, always, in front of the kids.

Behind the scenes you can discuss it. Otherwise those kids are going

to walk all over you.

>

> One thing my ex and I always agreed to do was show a united front

with the kids. We NEVER vetoed each other. Never allowed the kids

to ask one parent and get a no, then ask the other one to get a

yes. " What did your father say? " Even now on big issues we talk and

decide what we are going to do most of the time. That's about all we

ever talk about. LOL.

>

> It sounds like the stress may be getting to you. You need a warm

bubble bath with no interruptions.

>

> Angie Harley Mama Double-D

> Carson City, NV; Single, five children (3 at home), 2 dogs, 5 cats,

snow skiing, camping, Harley Rider, Lone Wolf, Blue Thong

Society/High Sierra Thong Snappers member, LFA Advocate, independent,

opinionated, outspoken, and open minded.

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, I have been that way with emotions before too. It sounds like you are

going into a bad state of depression. Honey, get something for it. I know you

have the script for the Amitriptyline, but that never seems to help most people

with depression. (Of course I am not your doctor). It is good for sleep and

also they say for nerve pain.

I have had times in my life where I cry at the drop of a hat for no reason. I

have to take antidepressants every day of my life or I will not be able to

function.

Oh... and don't call yourself lazy. You are not lazy. You are sick.

Depression in itself is an illness. So is the fibro.

Yeah, maybe you need to think hard about the situation with the fiance's

children. If he is already telling you not to correct them at all, it will

probably be worse after marriage.

Hugs to you,

Debra V.

jaimeislove wrote:

I have no idea what is wrong with me. I'm an emotional wreck. I'm

crying for absolutely no reason. My pain is not that bad today.

My fiance got upset the other night for me getting on to his kids. All

I did was tell them to stop arguing and they did. He says I'm being

too bossy. If I'm going to soon be their step mother, am I not allowed

to intervene? Especially when he can tune them out but I can't?

I'm not on ANY meds right now because I've been too lazy to get my

amitryptilene filled (I haven't even started it). So I know it's not

the meds. I had a hysterectomy over 3 years ago so no periods (I know

I can still have PMS without the periods) but I've never been like this.

Maybe stress? I'm stressed about getting my wedding plans done and

stressed about trying to buy a house with lousy credit.

When I fell the other night I was convinced I broke my toe so my doc

had me get an x-ray yesterday. The medical assistant called me back

today and said " no broken bones and no dislocations " . My entire foot

hurts and is swollen and my toe is SOOOO bruised. Bad sprain maybe?

Well, I'll stop whining for now. I'll watch some TV and see if I can

stay away from the Kleenex.

in NM

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(((Hugs))) and prayers for you !

jaimeislove wrote:

> I have no idea what is wrong with me. I'm an emotional wreck. I'm

> crying for absolutely no reason. My pain is not that bad today.

>

> My fiance got upset the other night for me getting on to his kids. All

> I did was tell them to stop arguing and they did. He says I'm being

> too bossy. If I'm going to soon be their step mother, am I not allowed

> to intervene? Especially when he can tune them out but I can't?

>

> I'm not on ANY meds right now because I've been too lazy to get my

> amitryptilene filled (I haven't even started it). So I know it's not

> the meds. I had a hysterectomy over 3 years ago so no periods (I know

> I can still have PMS without the periods) but I've never been like this.

>

> Maybe stress? I'm stressed about getting my wedding plans done and

> stressed about trying to buy a house with lousy credit.

>

> When I fell the other night I was convinced I broke my toe so my doc

> had me get an x-ray yesterday. The medical assistant called me back

> today and said " no broken bones and no dislocations " . My entire foot

> hurts and is swollen and my toe is SOOOO bruised. Bad sprain maybe?

>

> Well, I'll stop whining for now. I'll watch some TV and see if I can

> stay away from the Kleenex.

>

> in NM

>

>

>

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