Guest guest Posted January 10, 2008 Report Share Posted January 10, 2008 Thanks Debra V. I am better off at this time of my life alone. I have been married 3 times (1st to my boys father (he had affairs-big NO NO in my bood) the other two - well I cared for them quite a bit - but to be honest they were a way to get out of the situation I was in at the time. Both of them were unable to make a commitmant and if I had not jumped so fast headlong into such intense relationships I think I would have seen that. They both walked on me even when I wanted to try to make it work. I have a lot to work on before I even think about bringing anyone else into my life again. I was pretty misarabel for about 7-9 months after he left - but the last few I have been getting better. I have good friends through my church and the support of many many people there (in fact the back surgery I am having done I did not have the money to pay for the deductiable or co-insurance and through the church office the money has been raised). I could not be more blessed than I am and now I have this group to help me with the fibro and all the issues that go with that. I am slowly learning how to live alone and to be honest - I like it most of the time. Christi Randall www.singingwomenoftexas.com Re: Re: Fears with fibro To KMRC My daughter is 10. The only symptoms I had for years was occasional numbness and tingling in the fingers and being overly tired. I thought I had carpal tunnel syndrome for years. I just laid the exhaustion off the everyday work and stress. Then WHAM, at about the age of 39, it hit full blast and I knew I was ill with something. It just worsened so damn fast. Thanks, hugs, Debra V. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 11, 2008 Report Share Posted January 11, 2008 Christi I'm with you, I only got into relationships when I was intensely emotionally needy and wanted someone to lean on, so since I'm not doing that any more I really feel that the right guy will come along and if he does thats great and if he doesn't well.... Re: Re: Fears with fibro To KMRC My daughter is 10. The only symptoms I had for years was occasional numbness and tingling in the fingers and being overly tired. I thought I had carpal tunnel syndrome for years. I just laid the exhaustion off the everyday work and stress. Then WHAM, at about the age of 39, it hit full blast and I knew I was ill with something. It just worsened so damn fast. Thanks, hugs, Debra V. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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