Angie

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Thanks angie. Cash is a guaranteed way to go. i do have my own account. Just no

money in there. I am gonna start sneaking some in though. We are so done in this

marriage, if you can call it one. Hope you are feeling better too,

Hugs,

Angie wrote:

Make him give you cash, period. Three strikes and you're out. You've gone

through this enough. Time for a different approach. CASH is guaranteed to go

through. If he won't, then let him do the shopping. Don't even go with him. Make

a list if there are specific things you need.

I'd also consider a separate bank account. Sounds like you are on the road

toward separation anyway. That was the first thing I did. Got my own bank

accounts.

Angie Harley Mama Double-D

Carson City, NV; Single, five children (3 at home), 2 dogs, 5 cats, snow skiing,

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GGGGrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ~another Friday like last

week.~vent

well I dragged my butt ti the grocery store, assured that there was money in the

bank once again. Checked out my stuff and yep you guessed it, the card wouldn't

work. So I suspeneded the order and tried to call hubby. Would not answer his

phone. So i headed home and he calls. I tell him and he gets pissed at me cause

I am not very happy and have a tone to my voice. He hangs up on me. I get here

and demand he give me the passcode to look at the bank account. There is enough

money so why did the card not work? I decide to try it again and went and

shopped again and the card would still not work. I am in tears by now and very

frustrated. Call him again and he says that it should work. At this point I have

had it, so i grab the pet food and pay with the last cash I have and have to

leave yet another cart of food. I am at my wits end. He is being so mean too.

And of course it is all my fault. He had better get me a debit card with a

working pin or

cash from now on or he can do

all of the shopping himself. I cannot take this. My nerves are shot. I am still

fighting the flu too, so this took alot out of me to even go to the store. No

appreciation for anything I do. I am so blessed to have all of you. Thanks for

being my friend. also for listening too. What would y'all do in my shoes?

Hugs,