Guest guest Posted February 10, 2008 Report Share Posted February 10, 2008 Aww Teri (((gentle hugs))) I'm so glad your son is all right. And that your daughter seems to truly understand. Teri Wallner wrote: > Morning all, > > Woke up to screaming pain in my neck and upper back area so I knew I > needed to take my meds, stretch some and stay out of bed. > > Wanted to share something that happened this past week. My son who is > stationed down in Fort Worth was hospitalized, so my daughter, > granddaughter and I flew down from Wisconsin to Texas. He is doing > fine now -- thank God. But all the traveling and moving around > (car/train/plane), sleeping somewhere beside my bed and just generally > being out of my element has sent me into flare city. I kind of figured > it would happen. > > So besides the good news about my son is that my daughter had the > opportunity to see first hand over a period of 6 days what I actually > go through. She works for my PCP and stated to her that it totally > frustrates her because her mom is only 49, in pain the majority of the > time, can't do the things she used to be able to do and still should > be able to do and there is nothing she can do about it when it comes > right down to it. > > I started to cry when I heard that -- it's not that I want their pity -- > because I don't. But to have affirmation that someone who I thought > didn't understand -- does, that makes me grateful. I'm thankful that > my son is alright and that my daughter actually understands now. > > Wishing you all a " pain free " day. > > Teri (Central Wisconsin) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 Hi Teri, I'm sorry I haven't given you a proper welcome, but want to welcome you now. I'm sure you will like the group here, but am sorry we've met because of Fibro. I can imagine what it must be like to have your daughter finally understand what you are going through. It must have been so comforting to hear what she had to say. I'm happy for you. My daughter tries to understand, but she finds it difficult. She's here mostly if I need her, but she doesn't really get it. My son on the other hand does get it and knows how much I have to plan rest around doing things and when he can get down from Boston he's a great help. But he lives two hours away. I am really glad that your son is OK. What a trip that must have been. I hope your flare lets up soon and that you feel better. Blessed be, Marti Teri Wallner wrote: Morning all, Woke up to screaming pain in my neck and upper back area so I knew I needed to take my meds, stretch some and stay out of bed. Wanted to share something that happened this past week. My son who is stationed down in Fort Worth was hospitalized, so my daughter, granddaughter and I flew down from Wisconsin to Texas. He is doing fine now – thank God. But all the traveling and moving around (car/train/plane), sleeping somewhere beside my bed and just generally being out of my element has sent me into flare city. I kind of figured it would happen. So besides the good news about my son is that my daughter had the opportunity to see first hand over a period of 6 days what I actually go through. She works for my PCP and stated to her that it totally frustrates her because her mom is only 49, in pain the majority of the time, can't do the things she used to be able to do and still should be able to do and there is nothing she can do about it when it comes right down to it. I started to cry when I heard that – it's not that I want their pity – because I don't. But to have affirmation that someone who I thought didn't understand – does, that makes me grateful. I'm thankful that my son is alright and that my daughter actually understands now. Wishing you all a " pain free " day. Teri (Central Wisconsin) --------------------------------- Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 11, 2008 Report Share Posted February 11, 2008 Hi Teri - It's great to hear from you. I've been thinking about you. Sorry you are in a flare, but you're right, it is wonderful when we get that affirmation from our family. Hope you rest and recover soon. Jeanne in WI Morning all, Woke up to screaming pain in my neck and upper back area so I knew I needed to take my meds, stretch some and stay out of bed. Wanted to share something that happened this past week. My son who is stationed down in Fort Worth was hospitalized, so my daughter, granddaughter and I flew down from Wisconsin to Texas. He is doing fine now - thank God. But all the traveling and moving around (car/train/plane), sleeping somewhere beside my bed and just generally being out of my element has sent me into flare city. I kind of figured it would happen. So besides the good news about my son is that my daughter had the opportunity to see first hand over a period of 6 days what I actually go through. She works for my PCP and stated to her that it totally frustrates her because her mom is only 49, in pain the majority of the time, can't do the things she used to be able to do and still should be able to do and there is nothing she can do about it when it comes right down to it. I started to cry when I heard that - it's not that I want their pity - because I don't. But to have affirmation that someone who I thought didn't understand - does, that makes me grateful. I'm thankful that my son is alright and that my daughter actually understands now. Wishing you all a " pain free " day. Teri (Central Wisconsin) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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