Re: Laying low

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Hi Angie,

Believe me I know the feeling oh so well. I haven't felt good for

many years (didn't know why until 2 years ago) my daughters still

look at me like I am lieing on one hand and truthful on the other (I

think it depends on their moods)as to if they want to help around the

house or not. My DH use to help all the time until he had his strokes

this past summer which has left him with only use of his right hand

now (but at least he still tries to help). I get so angry when my

body doesn't want to work and then the girls don't help. I think the

only time they don't complain on helping is if they want something

and decide they will get a quicker yes if the house is clean then

dirty.

As far as money goes I feel the same also on this matter. Right now

we are waitting on SS to send a check (they just approved my DH) but

we have to wait another 2 -3 weeks because of my appeal on my case. I

am so confused when it comes to SS. By him getting approved though

will help us out to get caught up on everything we got behind on (no

income since July 20th, 2007) I had to go for assistance so I could

feed everyone and I hated every minute of it.

Try and keep your head up and things will get better money wise, as

far as the house goes if you figure out how to get the kids to jump

in and help before I do PLEASE let me know, LOL.

(((HUGS)))

Tina

P.S. I guess I like to go on and on to, LOL.

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> Hey everyone,

> I'm sick again and super depressed. I just can't handle this no

income and no help situation right now. The kids all don't want me

to go to Welfare for help because they might make their dad pay child

support. Of course he's living quite comfortably in a 2 bedroom

apartment with all the amenities. I feel like everyone just wants

another ounce of me but none of them are even willing to listen if I

need to talk. I have been really sick for a couple days and all the

girls took off last night; all night. I haven't gone to Welfare

because the paperwork says they want me to sign over my 401K and I

worked too hard and put up with too much crap for 3 years to put what

little I have in it. Then again, I can't even get what I need out of

it when I need it. My boys want me to just go back to work. I don't

know what the hell my millionaire parents want.

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> I'm fighting to keep this house and they can't even throw away

their trash when they eat something. Shit they do more at school

than they do here. You even throw away your garbage at

Mc's!!!

>

> I feel like letting the girls go live with their dad and going and

find a little 1 bedroom apartment for me and the dogs. Of course it

will take me six months to get rid of everyone's crap that's left

behind in this house. From that damn car in the driveway they won't

even give me a key to; and the one in front of the house my daughter

lost her license and can't drive (that's a pigsty too) to the ski

gear and old clothing I can't get them to get rid of. What am I?

Storage USA?

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> I'm too sick to be able to do much. I have barely gotten out of

bed and only yesterday did I realize I really was 'sick' and not just

tired. The swollen glands and blocked ear; nasal drainage and upset

stomach.

>

> OK I'll be quiet now. This is why I'm not posting much. If I get

started I can't stop.

>

> Angie Harley Mama Double-D

> Carson City, NV; Single, five children (3 at home), 2 dogs, 5 cats,

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[Guest guest]

(((((((((Angie)))))))))) I'm sorry you're feeling lousy. It sucks that no

one in your family understands you. I would probably raise the roof

screaming to get their attention. I wish there was something I could do or

say to help. All I can do is keep praying that you will get some help and

soon. Don't give up.

Jeanne in WI

> Hey everyone,

> I'm sick again and super depressed. I just can't handle this no income

> and no help situation right now. The kids all don't want me to go to

> Welfare for help because they might make their dad pay child support. Of

> course he's living quite comfortably in a 2 bedroom apartment with all the

> amenities. I feel like everyone just wants another ounce of me but none

> of them are even willing to listen if I need to talk. I have been really

> sick for a couple days and all the girls took off last night; all night.

> I haven't gone to Welfare because the paperwork says they want me to sign

> over my 401K and I worked too hard and put up with too much crap for 3

> years to put what little I have in it. Then again, I can't even get what

> I need out of it when I need it. My boys want me to just go back to work.

> I don't know what the hell my millionaire parents want.

>

> I'm fighting to keep this house and they can't even throw away their trash

> when they eat something. Shit they do more at school than they do here.

> You even throw away your garbage at Mc's!!!

>

> I feel like letting the girls go live with their dad and going and find a

> little 1 bedroom apartment for me and the dogs. Of course it will take me

> six months to get rid of everyone's crap that's left behind in this house.

> From that damn car in the driveway they won't even give me a key to; and

> the one in front of the house my daughter lost her license and can't drive

> (that's a pigsty too) to the ski gear and old clothing I can't get them to

> get rid of. What am I? Storage USA?

>

> I'm too sick to be able to do much. I have barely gotten out of bed and

> only yesterday did I realize I really was 'sick' and not just tired. The

> swollen glands and blocked ear; nasal drainage and upset stomach.

>

> OK I'll be quiet now. This is why I'm not posting much. If I get started

> I can't stop.

>

> Angie Harley Mama Double-D