Re: A day w/out a single symptom of FM ! WOW !!! then guilt,regret and shame ! ! !

[Guest guest]

However I ended the day in a very awful state of mind, guilt ,

regret and remorse. I've sent a personal apology and ask

Charlie not to leave the group. .. . . . . . . . . . . . ....

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djgraves9497@...: Sat, 5 Jan 2008 08:32:12 -0600Subject: Re:

A day w/out a single symptom of FM ! WOW !!!

That's fanstastic !! Hope you mark it with a big special color or sticker on

a calendar to remember it. It can help you know that there are more good days in

your future!Jeanne in WI>> WOW indeed. After a good nights sleep w/lots a dreams

I awoke feeling > great and haven't had any pain today nor stiffness.

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[Guest guest]

you did the right thing by apologizing, . Now it's up to him if he

chooses to accept or not. He seemed to be offended way too easily and

immediately left the group, lumping all online groups into the same kettle.

In large groups of our size, there are going to occasionally be hurt

feelings and such, but I believe most of us get past it and move on. So,

forgive yourself, . You've attempted to make amends. the ball's in his

court.

Jeanne in WI

However I ended the day in a very awful state of mind, guilt , regret and

remorse. I've sent a personal apology and ask Charlie not to leave the

group. .. . . . . . . . . . . . ....

[Guest guest]

,

I think he has issues not related to you or this group, let it go it's on him

not us how he chooses to live his life, just don't take it on board, whatever is

going on in his life is for

him to sort out not you, your awesome soooo live with it, babe.

Bonnie

Re: A day w/out a single symptom of FM ! WOW !!! then

guilt,regret and shame ! ! !

you did the right thing by apologizing, . Now it's up to him if he

chooses to accept or not. He seemed to be offended way too easily and

immediately left the group, lumping all online groups into the same kettle.

In large groups of our size, there are going to occasionally be hurt

feelings and such, but I believe most of us get past it and move on. So,

forgive yourself, . You've attempted to make amends. the ball's in his

court.

Jeanne in WI

However I ended the day in a very awful state of mind, guilt , regret and

remorse. I've sent a personal apology and ask Charlie not to leave the

group. .. . . . . . . . . . . . ....

1. While it is wonderful to share our experiences with everyone on the list as

to what treatments do and don't work for us, pls always check with your dr.

Some treatments are dangerous when given along with other meds as well as to

certain health conditions or just dangerous in general.

2. If you are in a difficult situation (doesn't matter what it is) pls don't be

afraid to ask for help. It is the first step to trying to make that situation

better.

3. To unsubscribe the e-mail is:

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4. Also, it is not uncommon for more than one member to be feeling bad at the

same time when it comes to flares and b/c of that potentially take something

another member says the wrong way. And that includes the things that one member

may find funny (even if it's laughing at fibro itself) even though we who deal

with illness whether one such as fibro or multiple illnesses try to keep a sense

of humor.

5. Pls let's be gentle with each other, and if you are having a bad day pls let

us know so that we can do our best to offer our support.

Have a nice day everyone.