Re: To the group and forward ... to Jeanne and Diane and all

[Guest guest]

Thanks so much for all your support. It has just been a rough couple of days.

d/h is ok. We get over most of our arguments or mishaps just as fast as we got

into one. He understands.... I guess sometimes it is hard though to fathom how

much rest a fibro victim needs. LOL..... (guess I have a new term for us now).

He is normally as supportive as he can be. He does not talk much about this

disease but he knows how real it is.

Just to let everyone know,,,,, I am ok. Thanks so much.

love and hugs,

Debra V.

Nd wrote:

Hi Debra,

I too am sorry you had the argument and are feeling

down.

I don't know why those who are supposed to love us

and support us can not just understand a little.

It took a patient coming into the ER with Fibro,where

my husband works as a crisis intake counsoler . The

patient told the ER staff when asked about the pain

explained it to them like this.. " you know how it

feels when you hit your funny bone , or your knee or

stump your toe ? well that is how i fill every day,

every where .. "

Diane

--- Jeanne and Dave

wrote:

> Hi Debra - I'm sorry you had a rough night with your

> husband. I had an

> argument with mine this morning that brought me to

> tears, too. It was

> stupid, but I'm so foggy and feeling sinus

> pain/pressure, that it was so

> frustrating having to argue with him about it. I

> hope the email helped with

> regards to your husband. Take care, and I hope

> you're feeling somewhat

> better today.

> Jeanne in WI

>

>

> > Sorry group. I am just so frustrated right now.

> I appreciate you being

> > there. I sent this letter to , my husband,

> because I am sick and

> > tired of not being understood. I am now crying

> with frustration of the

> > lack of understanding.

> > I love you all,

> > Debra V.

>

>

>

> 1. While it is wonderful to share our experiences

> with everyone on the list as to what treatments do

> and don't work for us, pls always check with your

> dr. Some treatments are dangerous when given along

> with other meds as well as to certain health

> conditions or just dangerous in general.

>

> 2. If you are in a difficult situation (doesn't

> matter what it is) pls don't be afraid to ask for

> help. It is the first step to trying to make that

> situation better.

>

> 3. To unsubscribe the e-mail is:

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> 4. Also, it is not uncommon for more than one member

> to be feeling bad at the same time when it comes to

> flares and b/c of that potentially take something

> another member says the wrong way. And that

> includes the things that one member may find funny

> (even if it's laughing at fibro itself) even though

> we who deal with illness whether one such as fibro

> or multiple illnesses try to keep a sense of humor.

>

> 5. Pls let's be gentle with each other, and if you

> are having a bad day pls let us know so that we can

> do our best to offer our support.

>

> Have a nice day everyone.

>

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