husbands that think we can get up and go any minute....

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I understand what alot of you are talking about. My d/h does the same thing,

He thinks he can wake up, tell me we are going somewhere " right now " and thinks

I can just magically be able to jump and run out the door. I think he is

finally getting the message though. For example, he usually takes the kids to

school. However, some mornings he will want me to do it for some reason or

another but won't tell me until it is time for them to go. I have explained

that I have to have time after I wake up before I can move around or do

anything.

I have to wake up and take my medication before I am able to hardly do

anything at all. It takes a good hour just to muster up the energy and get the

pain under control enough to even START to get ready.

Oh, he also use to go out alot without me too. Not much anymore as he has

been pretty much a home body. But we usually have no one to watch the kids and

I am always so damn tired and sick I can hardly go anywhere some days except

FORCE myself to work.

I don't like it when he goes out without me. It pisses me off. I don't

really mind if it is once in a while.... like once every 4-6 weeks or something.

But he use to get in a habit of going and not giving a crap what I think. Of

course, his health has taken a turn too the last couple of years.

Venting again.

hugs,

Debra V.

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[Guest guest]

Boy am I glad I don't have one of thse things anymore. Geat not to have

to put up with them. Mine was the same way Debra.

Little linda

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> I understand what alot of you are talking about. My d/h does the same

thing, He thinks he can wake up, tell me we are going somewhere " right

now " and thinks I can just magically be able to jump and run out the

door. I think he is finally getting the message though. For example,

he usually takes the kids to school. However, some mornings he will

want me to do it for some reason or another but won't tell me until it

is time for them to go. I have explained that I have to have time after

I wake up before I can move around or do anything.

>

> I have to wake up and take my medication before I am able to hardly

do anything at all. It takes a good hour just to muster up the energy

and get the pain under control enough to even START to get ready.

>

> Oh, he also use to go out alot without me too. Not much anymore as

he has been pretty much a home body. But we usually have no one to

watch the kids and I am always so damn tired and sick I can hardly go

anywhere some days except FORCE myself to work.

> I don't like it when he goes out without me. It pisses me off. I

don't really mind if it is once in a while.... like once every 4-6 weeks

or something. But he use to get in a habit of going and not giving a

crap what I think. Of course, his health has taken a turn too the last

couple of years.

>

> Venting again.

>

> hugs,

> Debra V.

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