Re: Re: Venting!!!~KMRC6666

January 21, 2008

I can so sympathize. My hubby has his own life that he leads and I am here to be

a maid and care for the animals and , who is old enough to care for

herself now. We do nothing as a couple anymore. Sleep in seperate beds, and

basically live as roomates. The difference is my hubby has PD and I have

CFS/fibro plus other health issues. My hubby went into his own world shortly

after his diagnosis a few years back. It can be lonely. I tried to divorce him,

but was forced into bankruptcy during that time and my lawyer dropped my case.

It was lose the house or get divorced basically. The house was to be mine, but

he neglected his court order to keep up the payments until the divorce would be

final. So it was bankruptcy or the street. I am still planning to leave when the

time is right. maybe we should be roomates, lol and let them live together. I

plan on trying for my ssi/disability and when I get it, he is gone. I am always

here for you if you need to vent.

Hugs,

KMRC6666@... wrote:

I understand why this is upsetting, because my DH does the exact same thing

to me, he has done this for the last 5 years, since I started to need more

time to get up and move around. He does not even tell me what he is planning to

do, he just makes plans and does whatever he wants. We have had many fights

about this for the last 2-3 years, I have been contemplating divorcing him for

over a year. It feels like I am just here to take care of the house, kids,

bills, laundry and that he has a secret second life that he enjoys without

us...I understand your pain. I don't know what to do about it, that is what is

upsetting to me. This is what I fear will cause our marriage to end, and he

will use my illnesses as the reason.

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