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Hi Debra,

You are such a sweetie. I know you really take things to heart and feel them

deeply. I do too and it can either make you feel very good or very bad,

depending on what is going on.

You are such a supportive, caring person. You have done nothing wrong in

anything you said. I reread what you wrote and all you did was speak from your

experiences and that is all any of us can do.

You, or any of us, can't create fears in anyone. It's the fear that is there

already that makes people feel the way they do. I'm sorry too that Melody

started feeling hopeless and wrote her to tell her so. We all have hope. The

one thing we can count on is change; because everything changes. It can change

for the good or the bad, but nothing in the universe remains constant. So there

is always hope.

Because of fear Melody needed to try to hang onto the premise that

Fibromyalgia doesn't progress. But because it has progressed in so many of us,

the fear started to overtake her. It isn't any of our faults. We are all just

trying to live through what we are dealing with and do the best that we can.

Nobody can predict what is going to happen in the next few minutes, much less in

years, so there is always hope.

You go through so much in your life. You don't need to add guilt to your

emotional and physical pain. You only spoke your mind. We all know how caring

and wonderful you are.\

Blessings,

Marti

debra van ness wrote:

Melody, I am so sorry. I just feel so horrible for adding to your

misery and fears. Please keep in mind that not ALL of us are the same. Have you

progressed? If not then you probably won't. Please don't be so sure. I have

heard that the majority of us do find it progresses, but that does not mean that

it does every single time. Sweetie, Please. I just want to pick you up and hug

you. And as for the teeth thing, there is really nothing out there that says

fibro will do this to our teeth. Alot of folks here have had fibro for years and

still have great teeth. If it is fibro that is doing this to some of us, It

won't do it to all of us.

I only really speak from personal experience. I don't have any idea what other

people's bodies will do or how they will feel 5 or 10 years from now. Hell, I

dont' know about my own. Maybe I have hit the peek of what this will do and

maybe it won't get worse. As of now I am still able to get out of bed, go to

work, and take care of myself. It may not be easy, but I can still do it. Maybe

I will still be able to do that in 20 years.

Honey, please don't be so sure that all your teeth will fall out and you will be

bound to the bed for life. It likely is not so. Really. I don't mind it when

people say that their FM has not progressed... it is a wonderful thing to hear.

I just have to tell my own experience with it so I can deal with the fact that

mine has. BUT MAYBE MINE WILL NOT GET ANY WORSE. And MAYBE yours won't either.

I just feel so helpless in the comfort I would like to give you. I just don't

know how to fix the horrible fears I feel I have had a hand in provoking.

I am so sorry.

love from the heart,

Debra V.

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