Guest guest Posted January 20, 2008 Report Share Posted January 20, 2008 , I am way behind on all posts here. I did run across your letter though. What a tough situation. It seems men tend to take us all for granted when we share everything with them... Most of them go by the motto " What's yours is mine and what's mine is mine too " . I live with somewhat of a selfish person too. He tends to want to control everything. I love him, but some days I wonder what it would be like without him. I don't think most men have any regard for what we feel or think. I will say that I am very limited in any choices I can make.... because of the FIBRO MONSTER that will not allow me to do alot of things I want to. I cannot physically get up in the mornings and take the children to school, pick them up or anything. It is ALL I can do to work. If I were a healthy person, it would be easier to see life alone with my kids. Most people would think that it is a simple answer. " Just leave, or tell him to leave " .... after all I make the living. But until someone is actually in my shoes they will never understand. , I am sorry your husband is so hurtful and disrepectful to your feelings or needs. It seems some men tend to use the fact we are ill in order to do things the way they want to without caring what we want. love ya, Debra V. --------------------------------- Looking for last minute shopping deals? Find them fast with Yahoo! Search. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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