Re: Re: I didn't sleep the whole night and all I can think is: food,food, food

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I've been married for six and with her for fifteen and we proove daily that we have no idea how to communicate. Welcome to the club!!!

I did speak with him later in the morning.

I told him there are nights I wouldn't care and there are nights I do care if he wants to wake me up.

We came to an agreement. Before I go to bed, we will talk about if I want to be up for fun or not.

It is all learning. We have been together for 5 years and I can't believe how many communication issues we still have and how they affect me.

It is not all his fault.

I can jump from A to Z in a second without thinking or asking for clarification.

Anyway, thank you all for your wonderful responses.

Have a great Monday

A

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> , please don't punish yourself because of your boyfriend's poor behavior! How inconsiderate and disrepectful of him! You were right for setting your boundaries, that showed self-respect!

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> Too bad there aren't more real gentlemen out there like Jon and Harry!

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> Jeanne

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someone else just mentioned her in a post... Byron wrote a book called " I Need Your Love -- Is That True? " . i recommend it for anyone who ever had relationship struggles. that would be just about all of us!

it's great for helping figure out where we go wrong in our miscommunication in any close relationship. it's great!

 

I've been married for six and with her for fifteen and we proove daily that we have no idea how to communicate.  Welcome to the club!!!

 

I did speak with him later in the morning.

I told him there are nights I wouldn't care and there are nights I do care if he wants to wake me up.

We came to an agreement. Before I go to bed, we will talk about if I want to be up for fun or not.

It is all learning. We have been together for 5 years and I can't believe how many communication issues we still have and how they affect me.

It is not all his fault.

I can jump from A to Z in a second without thinking or asking for clarification.

Anyway, thank you all for your wonderful responses.

Have a great Monday

A

>

> , please don't punish yourself because of your boyfriend's poor behavior!  How inconsiderate and disrepectful of him!  You were right for setting your boundaries, that showed self-respect! 

>  

> Too bad there aren't more real gentlemen out there like Jon and Harry! 

>  

> Jeanne

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