I didn't sleep the whole night and all I can think is: food,food, food

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I spent Sund evening with my boyfriend and we had a lot of fun. Slightly after

midnite, I told him that I was going to bed. He asked me if he could wake me up

for sex.I " stood up " for myself and I said no. It really bothers me that every

time I say that I am going to bed, he stays up for another 10 or 20 minutes and

then he wants to wake me up for sex.

it is like we are sending each other these messahes: From him, " honey, the TV is

more imporant than you " . From me, " honey, my sleep is more important " .

I hate this and even though I have been strong enough to say no, setting the

boundaries bothers me as I think he is going to leave me and find someone who

would not bothered being after the TV or being woken up to have sex.

We do have sex in those days when he mentions that he wants to wake me up.It is

not like he does not get any.

Anyway, setting those boundaries leave me with a bad feeling so now I am not

sure what is better.Allow him or continue with the boundaries and or just talk

to him about what is going on.

Right now, he is till asleep.I am awake.I barely slept and all I have in mind is

binge!

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