Re: looking for advice

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Darlyn

He is not leaving you because you have FM he is leaving you because he wants a

different life, one that does not include you, for good bad or indifferent, no

pay cheque or lack of paycheck will keep you from someone you love. In this

instance it's easy (painful) but easy, he has told the truth he is done and now

it is time for you to gather up what you have and dont have, take stock of your

life and start to build a new one. Of course all of this is SOOO easy to say and

SOOO hard to do, but try to remain positive your future is out there somewhere

waiting for you with a real man who does not care about you health or whether

your cheque arrives tomorrow or next week. Hold on its going to be a bumpy ride

but like it or not, your about to start it, that;s what we are all here

for......

Bonnie

looking for advice

My husband has desisded he does not want to be with a sick person

anymore.. he has seen me fighting this,go thru a few surgeries and he

now said he is leaving. i have no one no income waiting the endless

wait on disability. i can not even pack my things . he says he is just

wanting to go out and do thing , i have for years begged lets do

something i need to get out of here he always had the excuse that he

did not feel like it or to tire. i am so hurt lost and lonely i do not

know what to do or where to turn for help the lawyer says the wait is

at least another year. any advice it is getting he so down and needless

to say what all this stress is adding to me. for the last month he is

not coming home till very late at nite if then taking all the money

out of the bank -but he has said i promise you will have insurance and

half my paycheck when i leave. i am in shock and hurting so bad. is

there anywhere i can turn to for so money to get by. i can't even eat

from the stress for weeks now without getting very sick. Please help

me.

Darlyn

1. While it is wonderful to share our experiences with everyone on the list as

to what treatments do and don't work for us, pls always check with your dr.

Some treatments are dangerous when given along with other meds as well as to

certain health conditions or just dangerous in general.

2. If you are in a difficult situation (doesn't matter what it is) pls don't be

afraid to ask for help. It is the first step to trying to make that situation

better.

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4. Also, it is not uncommon for more than one member to be feeling bad at the

same time when it comes to flares and b/c of that potentially take something

another member says the wrong way. And that includes the things that one member

may find funny (even if it's laughing at fibro itself) even though we who deal

with illness whether one such as fibro or multiple illnesses try to keep a sense

of humor.

5. Pls let's be gentle with each other, and if you are having a bad day pls let

us know so that we can do our best to offer our support.

Have a nice day everyone.